Do women like it when you tell them to let you know when they are free to do something?

Good or bad you tell me.

Never, ever leave the option to call with her. Never. Always keep that option to yourself. Always. Bad Antalicus. Bad boy. Go to the corner.

If she is busy, tell her you will call her back after her busy stretch is over and see if she is free then.

You think even if she's into me, there's a chance she wont let me know when she's free?

You think even if she's into me, there's a chance she wont let me know when she's free?

As a guy who understands that some women have very busy social lives and work lives I tend to be persistent with the women I want to see. If she says she is busy I attempt to plan something for when she isn't busy or ask her to let me know when she is free. If she never lets me know that she is free and is always busy when I ask than she obviously isn't interested.

I don't think you did anything wrong.

I never like it when a guy leaves it so open like that. To me that just says that he is really not interested since he isn't asking for a specific day.

Usually if I know that I am really busy during the weekend or week that he asked me about - then I will say something like " Hey, I'm going to be really busy this weekend and not have a ton of free time but Sunday might be a good option - I can call you around 3pm or whatever whenever I am done with X and before I got to X" I usually do that because then the guy knows I am still interested in hanging out but that he knows that I also have a time schedule and that I am busy.

I know everyone doesn't work like that - but thats how I view it. If they are interested then they make time for you, or at least say hey i can't this week but next monday looks perfect.

Usually when a guy says that line to me about giving them a call whenever I am free then that means that well they aren't interested, I can call and they won't pick up... or they aren't interested enough to ask for a specific day.

Thats my .02