coffeegirl26 is offline coffeegirl26 Post #1  June 7,2010, 8:05am
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Someone who used to like me, is still reading my blog even though he told me to move on. We don't talk anymore nor do we see each other anymore because we are out for the summer because of college. When I did see around school though, he would ignore me and pretend that I wasn't there. I am just wondering why he reads my blog almost daily.
 
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ask_johnny is offline ask_johnny Post #2  June 7,2010, 8:09am
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He likes you and wants to get with you. Doesn't sound like he wants a relationship though. He either wants a fling or is embarassed to show his feelings in public. I say stop thinking about it so much and start looking at other dudes.
 
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Just because he likes what you have to say in your blog does not mean he likes you more than that or that he wants a relationship with you. I think he made that pretty clear.
 
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He must find your blog interesting for some reason. I wouldn't assume he wants any kind of relationship, or he'd be pursuing that.

I occasionally look at things old bfs have up on the internet, just out of interest, without having any desire to ever see them again.
 
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He wants to see if you dump on him on your blog for image control
 
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He reads it more to see what you may blog about him so he is prepared in case there is any fallout.
 
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He is reading your post to see if you write about him so he is prepared for any fallout.
 
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Stop witting your blog. That should shake him up.
 
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scully98 is offline scully98 Post #9  June 8,2010, 5:54am
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sorry, but if he wanted to ask you out, he would. reading your blog might mean that he is interested in your writing and aspects of your life, but not enough to date you. if he wanted to date you, he would call you.

sorry. don't mean to sound, well, mean. but it's the reality of this particular situation.
 
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