stedmister is offline stedmister Post #1  June 6,2010, 6:57am
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I met a friend yesterday for the first time face to face, we talked for about two house, it went well and she like to catch a movie.

I just wondering if this is a sign she's interested in me or not she quite cute, and we did have the routine, what do you do, do you like dogs, etc. I am new to the dating thing, not sure what to do, Does she want to be friends or want something a little bit more?
 
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you won't know unless you pursue her. take her to the movie. she has expressed interest in that. get to know her.

and don't be afraid to express an interest in her. good luck. and welcome to Advice.
 
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Hi. If I were this lady, having suggested seeing a "movie" ( I'm English, if I were her it would be a "film" I had suggested! ) it would indicate I was interested. If I was only thinking in "friend" terms I would have been less specific, something like "would you like to meet up again?". However, remember that we are all different, and also it may be that American ladies are more "upfront" than reserved English ones. Go for it, and keep us posted.
 
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Sounds like she found you interesting. Did she express interest in watching a particular type of movie?
 
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no she wasn't, thanks for the tip, i'll take it slow and see how it goes.
 
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If you are interested in her romantically, then treat her in a way that tells her that. If you treat her like any other friend, you'll end up being just a friend.

Ask her out, on a date. It does not need to be some big major thing. A movie, a walk, lunch, whatever. Good luck!
 
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Ask her if she'd like to go on a date with you, make sure you say it's a date and not just catching a movie, she'll say yes or she'll say no, either way the question will be answered.
 
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Maybe she wants to see a movie with you?

Sounds to me like some interest in you. The level, you gotta explore that.

Have fun and watch a movie.

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Since you are new at dating, I'd suggest you just take things slowly and get to know the new friend.

A movie is a nice idea as are going to a local music festival, taking a walk, going hiking, a day at the beach or a local lake. Dates don't need to be expensive either.

I find, when I'm first dating a man, that I want to spend time where we can talk together and get to know each other. Movies kind of prevent this because you are not able to talk while in the theatre.

One of the things I like best is taking an easy hike with my dog and even better if the man has a dog too! Sometimes I will pack a light lunch and we can spend the afternoon outdoors..if the weather is good. On rainy days, which we seem to be having a lot of here locally, we might go to a tavern and play pool too.

Just give yourself and her time to learn about each other and learn how to date. It takes practice! And good luck too!
 
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Is she cute/funny/interesting? Give it a go. Dont beat arround the bush.
 
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