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AndieIsMe is online now AndieIsMe — Advice Member-Moderator Post #1  June 3,2010, 10:09pm
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Do you smile at him from across the room? Wink? Walk up and talk to him? Motion with your hand to "come hither"? Grab him by the shirt and drag him to a table?

Tell us some of your "secrets" for getting the man you are interested in to talk to you.
 
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Do women dread the thought of walking over and saying "Hi there!" as much as men do? I always wished women who were interested in me would make the first move sometimes.

PS- I always loved the anecdote about how Hillary Clinton first met Bill. They first met in a library after Hillary approached Bill and said, "Look, if you're going to keep staring at me, and I'm going to keep staring back, I think we should at least know each other. I'm Hillary Rodham. What's your name?"
 
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Do women dread the thought of walking over and saying "Hi there!" as much as men do? I always wished women who were interested in me would make the first move sometimes.

PS- I always loved the anecdote about how Hillary Clinton first met Bill. They first met in a library after Hillary approached Bill and said, "Look, if you're going to keep staring at me, and I'm going to keep staring back, I think we should at least know each other. I'm Hillary Rodham. What's your name?"
"I swear I wasn't staring, I was just thinking about how nice some of your internal organs would look in masonry jars in my basement."
 
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"I swear I wasn't staring, I was just thinking about how nice some of your internal organs would look in masonry jars in my basement."
Now that is just a bit too freaky
 
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Do you smile at him from across the room? Wink? Walk up and talk to him? Motion with your hand to "come hither"? Grab him by the shirt and drag him to a table?

Tell us some of your "secrets" for getting the man you are interested in to talk to you.
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I think that men find you approachable based on your countenance. I slow down (as in not walk so fast, which I often do) and think about something that makes me smile. If I have an ipod on I sing or I will groove with the music.

When I am somewhere like the gym I will put my hair down when I am lifting weights. I wear perfume (some people frown on this, but oh well!). In general I always put an effort into my appearance.

I never make eye contact. I find that the men that are attracted will find me to be approachable. Men are attracted to a specific way a specific woman moves. Relaxed and happy usually = approachable.
 
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Nanette wrote :
I think that men find you approachable based on your countenance. I slow down (as in not walk so fast, which I often do) and think about something that makes me smile. If I have an ipod on I sing or I will groove with the music.

When I am somewhere like the gym I will put my hair down when I am lifting weights. I wear perfume (some people frown on this, but oh well!). In general I always put an effort into my appearance.

I never make eye contact. I find that the men that are attracted will find me to be approachable. Men are attracted to a specific way a specific woman moves. Relaxed and happy usually = approachable.
I think someone could write a book on how a woman can stay single from life based on what Nanette advises.
 
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Nanette wrote :

Men are attracted to a specific way a specific woman moves. Relaxed and happy usually = approachable.
The above is true but why no eye contact? Eye contact is one of the biggest indicators of interest there is!

Nanette, if I look at you and you continually look away, you are sending me a clear signal not to approach. It might not stop me but it won't encourage me.
 
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No, wait, I know this one.............

Is it 'low cut and / or too tight clothing'?
 
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trixie1868 wrote :
No, wait, I know this one.............

Is it 'low cut and / or too tight clothing'?

HUH? Wait! I thought that brought the wrong attention.
 
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