SWM41NJ is offline SWM41NJ Post #1  June 2,2010, 6:29pm
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Breezy1 is offline Breezy1 Post #2  June 2,2010, 6:39pm
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I'm sorry. I couldn't read much past the dry humping.
 
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FairOne is offline FairOne Post #3  June 2,2010, 7:04pm
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Your post was difficult to follow but from what I gathered, she didn't really do much wrong.

She told you she wanted to be friends and she told you she wanted to date other people, apparently in advance of doing it.Those aren't red flags, they are clear indicators that you don't have a romantic relationship. Plus it seems you never had any physical contact other than a kiss (and a random dream-induced leg hump. not sure what to say about that one!)

I'm sorry this didn't work out the way you wanted, but I believe the only lesson to be learned here is: believe people when they tell you they just want to be friends and that they want to date other people.
 
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I am glad you learned your lesson, but going forward don't trace other people's calls. Even if the other people are cheating on you, you shouldn't invade other people's privacy, its hurts your self respect more than theirs.

I think you should be very happy and thank this girl. You just learned a pretty valuable lesson in life and in people.

You sound like a good guy, you deserve a good girl by your side.
 
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derek74 is offline derek74 Post #5  June 2,2010, 7:15pm
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I found the word "benign" in there...but the rest is seemingly malignant.

Sorry man...I'm not sure I can relate to your plight exactly. Better luck next time though.
 
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Dump her and move on, period.
 
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livenlearn is offline livenlearn Post #7  June 2,2010, 8:24pm
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Breezy1 wrote :
I'm sorry. I couldn't read much past the dry humping.

There was dry humping?
I didnt get that far.

Nah, not scrolling back.

Sorry Op for whatever did or didnt happen for ya.
 
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I guess this relates to another thread that I am not aware of.

However, I would say that a lesson that should be learned is spelling "lessons" correctly.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
...I would say that a lesson that should be learned is spelling "lessons" correctly.
 
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