Not Sure What Happened--Advice?

Those sound like warning signs of a clingy controller/manipulator to me. Prying questions about your past relationships, hints of mistrust/jealousy about talking to exes, a push for "exclusivity" by closing your EH account? I would tread carefully here. This guy sounds like he might consider you a possession already.

The lack of phone response over the three day weekend might not be a big deal in and of itself. He might just be busy or he may be wondering if he's "calling too much" and trying to give it some breathing room...I know I do that on occasion, especially if I really *do* like a woman. But in your case that doesn't seem to be a fit. I would think he'd go the other way with it.

I would say be assertive. Don't answer the prying personal questions, and let him know in a calm but firm manner that you don't like them at this phase of the relationship. You're under no obligation right now. If you're not ready to be exclusive with him, then by all means don't be exclusive. Be firm, be confident and stand up for yourself. If he balks at that or loses his cool...you'll learn real quick what level of potential the relationship has.

Sassafrass--He asked me how many sexual partners I had, if I ever had an STD and if I spoke to my ex-boyfriends..all after 1-2 dates! I was really shocked..
To all--Maybe you're right..He told me he was a "picky" person and I was lucky to make the cut--said in humor of course..I told him maybe that's why he's still single..
Honestly we get along great and there is tons of chemistry..But I sorta feel like I have to walk on eggshells..To the poster who said I get overwhelmed when he asks questions and then want him to call--you're right...Most of these conversations have taken place over the phone..He's already told me he's not seeing anyone else and told his fam about me--if he's telling the truth..I like him and would love to get to know him better but I feel like he has to take it easy..I've been married before so I'm trying to tread lightly..so has he and I'm wondering if he's been hurt before and that's the reason for all the questions..Guess there's no use trying to figure him out..

Chad from Nickelback

Sassafrass--He asked me how many sexual partners I had, if I ever had an STD and if I spoke to my ex-boyfriends..all after 1-2 dates! I was really shocked..
To all--Maybe you're right..He told me he was a "picky" person and I was lucky to make the cut--said in humor of course..I told him maybe that's why he's still single..
Honestly we get along great and there is tons of chemistry..But I sorta feel like I have to walk on eggshells..To the poster who said I get overwhelmed when he asks questions and then want him to call--you're right...Most of these conversations have taken place over the phone..He's already told me he's not seeing anyone else and told his fam about me--if he's telling the truth..I like him and would love to get to know him better but I feel like he has to take it easy..I've been married before so I'm trying to tread lightly..so has he and I'm wondering if he's been hurt before and that's the reason for all the questions..Guess there's no use trying to figure him out..