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Antalicus is offline Antalicus Post #1  May 24,2010, 1:02pm
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I have been on a date with this girl a couple times now and she seems interested enough but we have never had the right moment to kiss. I am pretty sure this is my fault as I'm bad at picking up signals.

Do women always have signals and when and where do they not want to be kissed (location wise). For the most part our date has ended in parking lots or with people onlooking. A parking lot is a pretty lame place for first kiss and I have no clue how she feels about PDA.

Anyways this is all for preparation of the next date so I want to make sure I choose something that gets her in the mood.
 
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MelinCali is offline MelinCali Post #2  May 24,2010, 1:28pm
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Who knows? Every person is different. I could tell you what I think, but that doesn't matter because I am not dating you.

I would prefer a place without people looking on, but a parking lot doesn't seem so bad. Any chance you will drive her the next date? Have you offered to pick her up so you can walk her to her door at the end of the night for perhaps a more classical/traditional location for the first kiss after a date?
 
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DrTonto is offline DrTonto Post #3  May 24,2010, 1:29pm

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When your having coffee or a good night drink tell her that you would enjoy to kiss her, but do to a lack of privacy you put it off until now, would she like sit in the car with you to discuss it further? It's a yes or a no thank you.
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TrixiPooch is offline TrixiPooch Post #4  May 24,2010, 1:43pm
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If I don't want to be kissed I will avoid eye contact, and try to hurry along the goodbyes. If I'm open to a kiss, there will be a lot of eye contact with smiles and some lingering during the goodbyes. If I want it, and he's not picking up on the hints, I may just take it!
 
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TrixiPooch wrote :
If I don't want to be kissed I will avoid eye contact, and try to hurry along the goodbyes. If I'm open to a kiss, there will be a lot of eye contact with smiles and some lingering during the goodbyes. If I want it, and he's not picking up on the hints, I may just take it!
Yes, lots of lingering!!!!
 
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Yes, it's eye contact, facing him with my body fully open toward his, smiles, arm touches, lingering.

Probably easier to read the I don't want it - tension, avoiding eye contact, standing far back when saying good bye, a stiff, hurried hug or not even that and a mumbled good bye with keys in one hand ready for a fast getaway or body turned away from you taking a long time fumbling with my purse to find the darn keys while mumbling good bye and looking away from you.
 
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Yep, we are pretty easy to read! I would just plant one myself, but that is me. i.e. you don't even need to guess it is usually pretty obvious.

Ok I am on another cloud today. The guy that was backing up last week is coming on strong and I am the one backing up! I am sorry, this stuff is just funny!
 
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I know when I can't stop thinking about kissing a guy I'm looking at his lips a lot. Maybe you can catch her giving glances. I'd think if you've got date 3 planned...go for it. Parking lot, wherever. When you greet eachother hello do you hug? You could start small with a kiss on the cheek at this time...or maybe kiss the back of her hand if you ever take her hand. You'll be able to tell pretty easily, I'd think.

But depending on you two...do it!!! I know for me if I go out a second time, I'd be hoping for a little kiss. If I got past a third date and you didn't make a move, I'd start to wonder. Ahhh first kisses...

Good luck!
 
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I appreciate the help. Also to clarify, this isn't my first kiss, though it will be ours. However, its one where i'm trying not to screw up. I have kissed girls in very unmemorable locations and had the awkwardly timed ones and the times when it worked out perfect but its always been me guessing.

Maybe its because i have been reading so much lately about how girls put a lot of emphasis oh the first kiss and im afraid if i screw it up it will ruin what could have been.
 
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Antalicus wrote :
I appreciate the help. Also to clarify, this isn't my first kiss, though it will be ours. However, its one where i'm trying not to screw up. I have kissed girls in very unmemorable locations and had the awkwardly timed ones and the times when it worked out perfect but its always been me guessing.

Maybe its because i have been reading so much lately about how girls put a lot of emphasis oh the first kiss and im afraid if i screw it up it will ruin what could have been.
ugh....stop reading that carp - all it will do is mess with your head, make you over think things and ultimately destroy your confidence. Instead of getting the girl, you'll start losing them. If you like her and it seems like she likes you, go for it.
 
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