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nacy16 is offline nacy16 Post #1  May 23,2010, 8:19am
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I just wondering if everyone take serious about those advice that provid by experts for your dating /relationship?

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If you're talking about the Dating Expert, D_Lion, then, yes, everyone takes it seriously.
 
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the vast majority of the articles on eha are ones i would not be able to recommend.
 
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Nanette wrote :
the vast majority of the articles on eha are ones i would not be able to recommend.
How about those comments on your case, like some ask expert website, you ask them question, and they answer it.....? do you take serious for those comments......? of couse, you only make a summary of your story.....not the whole story......
 
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D_Lion wrote :
If you're talking about the Dating Expert, D_Lion, then, yes, everyone takes it seriously.
D_Lion, let me ask you a question...
A man gives you a number, but I email back mine, and ask if he want me make call, then please give a good time to call...... no phone call or email reply for days, then I decide text him, he replied pretty quickly. he told me he has a crazy schedule (I believe what he has said...), but he is looking forward to Jun's outdoor event in our town......
Then we stop texting each other ......... can you tell any messenge from his text... (we never meet in person), he is trying to imply that he will be free then, we talk/meet then or.....actually he means nothing.......
I really confused.....
 
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The only area where you'll find good advice is in the LTAS forum
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How about those comments on your case, like some ask expert website, you ask them question, and they answer it.....? do you take serious for those comments......? of couse, you only make a summary of your story.....not the whole story......
I've never used those services. I tend to be someone that will find good reading (or other relevant material) and come to my own conclusions based on the information.

If you are a woman seeking information about men, I would highly recommend Dr Herb Goldberg. He has a practice in Los Angeles and he also does phone consults. He has written several very informative books on the mens that will probably help you tremendously.
 
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nacy16 wrote :
A man gives you a number, but I email back mine, and ask if he want me make call, then please give a good time to call...... no phone call or email reply for days, then I decide text him, he replied pretty quickly. he told me he has a crazy schedule (I believe what he has said...), but he is looking forward to Jun's outdoor event in our town......
Then we stop texting each other ......... can you tell any messenge from his text... (we never meet in person), he is trying to imply that he will be free then, we talk/meet then or.....actually he means nothing.......
I really confused.....

On an online dating site, I expect healthy, available people to introduce themselves, possibly screen for criteria they are looking for, and then arrange to meet.

If he is not doing this, he is likely either not interested, not available, or not sure what to do.

I do not think the message implies he expects to be available in June. People with legitimate schedule constraints usually discuss the schedule openly - or, at least, are precise about when they will be available.

Personally, I think you should pick a time and day you'd like to meet, and suggest it?

If he does not either agree or make a counter-proposal, then ask for a phone call.

If you don't get agreement at that point, I would move on.
 
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Nanette wrote :
the vast majority of the articles on eha are ones i would not be able to recommend.
Yes!
 
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