Why Are Women On eHarmony


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Phenix191 is offline Phenix191 Post #1  May 19,2010, 10:29am
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Ninety eight percent of women that eHarmony has matched me with have very low interest in meeting someone.
 
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How do you know that? If they close you out, they might just not be interested in you in particular. If they never respond to your prompts, they might not be paying members. If communication fades midway, then that happens to everyone both men and women.

Women are on EH for the same good, bad and ugly reasons men are. Try not to take non communication or rejection personally or to generalize. Keep throwing your hat in the ring (despite the frustrations) and if its not working for you, move on.
 
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annother is offline annother Post #3  May 19,2010, 10:38am
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You might want to check out some of the threads on low response rate. It's an ongoing problem.


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Phenix191 wrote :
Ninety eight percent of women that eHarmony has matched me with have very low interest in meeting someone.
They probably just aren't interested in meeting YOU. But remember, it only takes one right? So out of that 2%, if you find the one, then it is worth it right? If I wanted to go on 7 dates in 7 days, I could. In fact, on Match, I did. It's like a hookup site/meat market whatever. If just casual meeting and max number of dates is what you are after, eH probably isn't the place.
 
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Mokkesofie is offline Mokkesofie Post #5  May 19,2010, 10:44am
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Phenix191 wrote :
Ninety eight percent of women that eHarmony has matched me with have very low interest in meeting someone.
I gave up using eH for the same reason (reg. men that is).
 
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If they are not viewing or closing you out, then it means that you are being matched with dead profiles - they either never became members or stopped being ones. This is actually a very serious growing problem with EH, despite their claims that they don't match with inactive profiles. Practical experience says otherwise.

If they are closing you out, well....have some female friends take a look at your profile or you can always post it here under Using EHarmony and get some feedback. Sometimes, what you write can sound great to you but be grossly misread by others and need some rewording.
 
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juliamarie is offline juliamarie Post #7  May 19,2010, 10:46am
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I want a hubby and an armful of younguns!

I'm just saying . . .
 
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Mokkesofie is offline Mokkesofie Post #8  May 19,2010, 10:48am
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juliamarie wrote :
I want a hubby and an armful of younguns!

I just want an armful of hubby.
 
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PY_2 is offline PY_2 Post #9  May 19,2010, 10:54am

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Mokkesofie wrote :
I just want an armful of hubby.
or younguns lol
 
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insertscreenname is offline insertscreenname Post #10  May 19,2010, 10:57am
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How about biguns? I mean some women want those too, right?
 
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