Beginning of Relationship: Is there an ideal frequency of dates a girl expects?


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Antalicus is offline Antalicus Post #1  May 18,2010, 1:34pm
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At the beginning of a relationship how frequently does a girl expect to go out with you?

For example, went on the first date Friday, and an opportunity to do something the following day came up so I asked if she wanted to go, but she had plans for an event out of town. (She wasn't lying as she talked to me about what she did on Sunday and asked about my day Saturday)

When do you expect to go on the next date and how much space do you want between dates? I want to avoid crowding her and also show that I enjoy seeing her.
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My best advice: ask her. Each person is going to be different depending upon what else is going on in her life, whether family, school or work commitments or something else. My situation now that I'm retired and back in dating as a widow is entirely different than it was when I was 21, teaching, and had lessons to plan and papers to grade many evenings. If you are in a relationship, communicating about anything which affects the other is a good way to start out anyway.
 
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Generally in the very early stage I would expect about one date a week.
 
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