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Now 1 5.56%
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lacedwithhope is offline lacedwithhope Post #1  May 16,2010, 6:29pm
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This is for the guys to state what they would prefer the woman they've just started dating to do, and for the women to vote on what they would do in this situation:

You've just met a new guy and had two dates. Both went well and you've both agreed (on the 2nd date) that you'd like to see each other again. You've been invited to a wedding in three weeks, and RSVP'd a month ago for two people, figuring on bringing your almost-adult daughter (who knows the bride), or possibly a date.

Edit: You'll be wearing an awesome new sexy-but-wedding-appropriate dress...
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Great news on the second great date, hope things work out!

I'll be interested in seeing the answers because I'm in a similar situation.
 
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VB_Girl wrote :
Great news on the second great date, hope things work out!

I'll be interested in seeing the answers because I'm in a similar situation.
Thanks, but since this is for the greater good (LOL), did you vote yet?
 
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I don't think I would be bringing anyone into my circle of friends, work associates, or family unless they are someone I will be dating exclusively. That's just me though... I don't think it would be inappropriate or anything. I just don't like to mingle very new dating prospects with my more established life.

Curious to see what others say also.
 
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If she was to ask me, I would go.

Last October, I attended a wedding with a match after the first meet, we had also discussed it prior to meeting, it was a disaster

Laced, do you think you would have just as much fun with your date, as you would with your daughter. I mean would you be on your absolute best behavior with your date, and maybe not letting loose as much? it's all about the electric slide!
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lacedwithhope wrote :
Thanks, but since this is for the greater good (LOL), did you vote yet?
For the greater good, I did.
 
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If my date asked me to attend a wedding only after a couple dates, I would probably hyperventilate and start sweating badly lol.

At the very least I'll ask if there's an open bar there

Edit: OK maybe for VB Girl I'll make an exception lol
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TrekRyder10 wrote :
Laced, do you think you would have just as much fun with your date, as you would with your daughter.
Yes!

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I mean would you be on your absolute best behavior with your date
No! *wicked smile here*

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and maybe not letting loose as much?
I would let loose (e.g. drink) more

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it's all about the electric slide!
Shimmy shimmy :::::::::::::::::::
 
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TrekRyder10 wrote :
If she was to ask me, I would go.

Last October, I attended a wedding with a match after the first meet, we had also discussed it prior to meeting, it was a disaster

Laced, do you think you would have just as much fun with your date, as you would with your daughter. I mean would you be on your absolute best behavior with your date, and maybe not letting loose as much? it's all about the electric slide!
Are you available on 6/19? I have a wedding and no date yet. It will be fun ... unless you are the seasick type in which case it would be another disaster.
 
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VB_Girl wrote :
Are you available on 6/19? I have a wedding and no date yet. It will be fun ... unless you are the seasick type in which case it would be another disaster.
If I was able to take vacation in June, I would've come out, my sister would love it..
 
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