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Capichino is offline Capichino Post #1  May 14,2010, 5:10pm
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I have only been online for a couple of weeks and it seems to me like people online give up so easy. The guys and girls seem to want someone that is willing to meet right away with very little conversation and/or they want to be in a relationship very quick without the courting and communication. I try not to judge people but it seems like maybe so many women and/or men are seeking relationships, that maybe they don't have to make too much of an effort to get to know the person.They can move on to the next one. I am not sure if I am just being judgemental and unfair or has anybody noticed that in today's society the morals and values have disappeared?
 
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do you mean online in general or in trying to date?
 
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Hi, I mean just trying to get to know the person, to even see if you would be interested in dating or being friends.
 
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Yo! One stars for lack of sufficient analysis and detail, and failure to welcome the Newbie!

Newbie, wlecome to eHahaha!
 
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Hi, I mean just trying to get to know the person, to even see if you would be interested in dating or being friends.

Once I gained some experience, I found that meeting as soon as possible was a good idea.

Anything prior to meeting, is just to vague and likely to lead to dissapointment.
 
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Capichino wrote :
I have only been online for a couple of weeks and it seems to me like people online give up so easy. The guys and girls seem to want someone that is willing to meet right away with very little conversation and/or they want to be in a relationship very quick without the courting and communication.
Welcome, Capichino!

I haven't been on this website for very long, but judging by what I see on these eH Advice threads, it seems that most people want to have some initial online correspondence before meeting someone.

My guess would be that they want, on average, a couple of weeks of internet email or chat before the first date. Then, the speed at which the relationship develops seems to vary a lot. Some people fall in love quickly, others take months. It's a very wide range of experience.
 
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Wow! I never thought of that. I guess when you meet really is when it starts. Anybody can make promises,but you really don't know if the attraction is there until you meet. Thanks
 
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i was askeered for him for mentioning "morals and values"
 
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