With more than 75% of face-to-face communication based on body language alone, what you say isn’t as important as how you say it. By tuning in to the body language of others—as well as your own—you will know whether to keep the conversation going or cut your losses and move on.
i think i would rather die than use any of the lines written above!
i'll stick to "hey , you seem like a really nice girl , may i take you out sometime?
just be honest, be yourself i'm not a pick up artist but since my divorce i've asked one gal out and i have one date with her next week with the above honest line and a whole bunch of emails, 30 years ago in high school she would not give me the time of day! Persistence is the key, she would not answer emails at first then with a couple more we communicated and we are hooking up next weekend.
batting 1000!
don't use pick up lines and then switch to honesty. they will know your a Lionking!
Baberaham Lincoln! Who does that work on? Chimpanzees!!!
Does that mean that she has a bad beard, a big nose, a bad hat and someone wants to shoot her in the head? That may be the WORST line I've ever heard.
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Then it's a bit premature to worry about being friend-zoned. The first step is to go out on dates!
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Do you have something completely stupid to talk about? Come here. Talk. It's a simple two step process. Please have a good sense of humor about all this. It is good for the heart.
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