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jussmile is offline jussmile Post #1  May 4,2010, 6:13pm
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Okay, I know this is a no, no... and I should be ashamed for even thinking it (and... I do mean, just thinking, not doing... just thinking...) !

what if...

What if you met two really awesome people, and you could seriously date both of them, you could seriously see yourself with either of them?

What if they both really liked you, and both really respected you, and you connected really well with both of them?

Hmmmm... it's not the way life works, and we can't be two people, but what if ...

Fine, fantasy over. I just think some people are really, really cool, and thought I would share. But, have you ever been in a situation where you wish you were two people, and you thought you could be very happy in either direction?! It's not that you have to choose which person to date, but kinda, you really wish you could date both...

I guess.. the more, the merrier doesn't always apply !
 
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At the moment I would settle for just having one person respond to the point of actually having a first date.
 
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Decision science, as taught by Harvard Business School, is that when two choices are essentially equal, there is no reason to care which choice is made.

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If the choice is very different people, with different attibutes, then more time ought to be allotted to this decision.
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I personally would be ok with one GREAT match...

But since the OP seems to find great matches so easily, why stop at two?
 
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Why just two? good things come in threes
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
At the moment I would settle for just having one person respond to the point of actually having a first date.
greatguy... you seem like a good guy... why the defeatest attitude? that might come off when you're dating people? maybe?

well, I'll date you ... in the seattle area any time soon !
 
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cal_dude wrote :
Why just two? good things come in threes
i've just asked g8guy out... we'll see where that goes !
 
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mrflyer wrote :
This is why coins were invented.
I like rock paper scissors better.
 
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PY_2 wrote :
... why stop at two?
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Why just two? good things come in threes
Triplets ftw!!!
 
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