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Went out had a great time, he said there is nothing wrong but he still doesn't call.

Anybody had that experience?
- May 28th, 2008, 08:53 pm
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A person will call and make themselves available if they are interested. If not, What Ever!
- May 28th, 2008, 08:59 pm
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What he said!

yes he will call or text or email if he is interested.
- May 28th, 2008, 09:01 pm
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If a Man is interested He will call........it is that simple.....why do we as women try to analyze it, excuse it, and rationalize it. Read He is just not that into you....it is crude at times...but it is pretty simple...when a guy is into you he wants you to know it and he will show it.......

Chalk it up to a great time and move on......
- May 28th, 2008, 09:04 pm
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creativemac007 wrote :

What he said!

yes he will call or text or email if he is interested.
He did text. msg. the next day, he even made an appt. for another date but than never heard from him.
- May 28th, 2008, 09:04 pm
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He is not being respectful of you

He is showing he is not dependable........

.you deserve to be treated with respect and to be able to depend on someone.When we are lonely( talking from own experience) we tend to allow for more bad behavior, because we get this dumb idea no one esle will come along. When I realized it really was OK tobe alone and know I have my dignity, I was not so alone. men also can smell desperation and it is a huge turn off for them. They want a women who has her own life and will not drop her life at the hat for him. THey want to know you respect yourself........so get up off of that thing...and you will feel better...
- May 28th, 2008, 09:12 pm
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Dustyjo wrote :

He is not being respectful of you

He is showing he is not dependable........

.you deserve to be treated with respect and to be able to depend on someone.When we are lonely( talking from own experience) we tend to allow for more bad behavior, because we get this dumb idea no one esle will come along. When I realized it really was OK tobe alone and know I have my dignity, I was not so alone. men also can smell desperation and it is a huge turn off for them. They want a women who has her own life and will not drop her life at the hat for him. THey want to know you respect yourself........so get up off of that thing...and you will feel better...
I agree with you, and that is why I haven't dated for over a year. I finally got the nerve to date again, I was dating 2 guys and being honest about it, so that they had a choice, and both had a problem sharing, so even though I wasn't ready to choose I made a decision and now I'm sorry I did. Honesty is the best policy right?, how can you get to know someone if you don't date him? and how do you choose one from the other if you don't have enough info?
- May 28th, 2008, 09:33 pm
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Do you not tell, that you are dating more than one man?

- May 28th, 2008, 10:21 pm
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ask for direct and honest real one on one communication. if this is not present, at the out set concider this to be a bright red flag, move on if need be, do not settle for less, there are good men out there.

Never overlook truthful and pure honesty in all your communications coupled with real eye contact. This will keep you out of trouble.

Remember, once you give your heart away without condition to someone whom does not have like qualities as you, YOU are the foolish one, your heart will be returned damaged and this damage is difficult to repair. Your heart is you and is very precious, be carefull.

If you have to ask others, then that little voice inside is warning you and you are not listening to it, some call it a gut feeling.
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Real men know exactly who they are, and have capacity for giving and receieving love at all times. A well rounded man with quality attrbutes does not behave in this fashion in a budding relationship.
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This thread is 18 months old and I don't recognize any of the previous posters.
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