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3duwardo is offline 3duwardo Post #1  May 3,2010, 8:19pm
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Hey guys! Welp im back for more help. Eharmony advice is always filled with helpful people that seem to be able to dissect my situations very effectively lol.

Welp the title says pretty much tells the whole story, I need some advice on how to ask a girl to prom. A specific one I have in mind to be precise.

Yes, I am in high school senior year. and yes this is really confusing for some reason lol.

I really don't want to come on too strong and be seen as a creep (I really hate coming on as a creep) so none of that standing outside her house at night etc bullcrap lol. I talk to this girl allot, were fairly good friends. I tried asking her out before earlier this year since I was interested in her along time ago. That didn't go so well, she politely declined (it wasn't well thought out at all, u can follow it as I made a thread here awhile ago on it). We kept a friendly relationship.

I'm not too sure should I should state that it's a clear date or just friends going to prom. I really wanna make the most of this chance to ask her to prom, I won't have the chance to see her anymore as high school is done.

I have a feeling I pretty much just need to ask straight forward. I.e. "hey ***** would you like to go to prom with me???" (but it obviously more well thought though)

eharmony community I know you have my back! Shed some opinions and advice! thanks guys!
 
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Frankly, I would just be up front. I did the asking for both my proms. Didn't have many boyfriends in high school, well, none that lasted so long as to overlap prom time.

Just stick your neck out and do it. Don't stammer, stutter or lose eye contact. Stand tall and keep a smile on your face and in your eyes.
 
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Have a pizza delivered to her house or classroom.

Spell out Prom?.. in pepperoni...

Attach a hand written note or card with your invitation to the inside lid of the box.
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Or a little red wagon
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AndieIsMe wrote :
Frankly, I would just be up front. I did the asking for both my proms. Didn't have many boyfriends in high school, well, none that lasted so long as to overlap prom time.

Just stick your neck out and do it. Don't stammer, stutter or lose eye contact. Stand tall and keep a smile on your face and in your eyes.
I agree. Find a time when she is alone....or call her on the phone and ask her.

Good Luck!
 
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Did you ask her yet?

Time is not on your side; the longer you wait, the higher the odds she will have accepted someone else's offer to go.

Half the battle is probably asking before some other guy does.
 
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3duwardo wrote :
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I have a feeling I pretty much just need to ask straight forward. I.e. "hey ***** would you like to go to prom with me???" (but it obviously more well thought though)
It really doesn't have to be "more well thought out" than this! You do know what to do ...

Walk up to her, or call her, and say it. Good luck!!
 
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