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readytodate is offline readytodate Post #1  May 3,2010, 5:05pm
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so...what's the consensus, is it okay to kiss on the first date? and if so, should it just be a peck, or can it be a little more, ahem, in-depth.
 
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It would be whatever you think feels right.

Personally I would be rather hesitant to initiate a kiss on the first date.
 
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When I started to date, I was afraid to scare off the women.

Over time, I came to a different conclusion: if she doesn't like me, it doesn't matter what I do anyway; if she does, then the last thing I want to do is leave her wondering if I'm not interested.

I now consider getting a Kiss a good way to judge her interest.

(I ask before a Kiss, though some women have called this lame.)
 
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D_Lion wrote :
(I ask before a Kiss, though some women have called this lame.)
Hah...I don't think it's lame. I guess it just depends, at least you are asking before going in for the kill.
 
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I would like a quick kiss. (Although I am desperate
 
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D_Lion wrote :
When I started to date, I was afraid to scare off the women.

Over time, I came to a different conclusion: if she doesn't like me, it doesn't matter what I do anyway; if she does, then the last thing I want to do is leave her wondering if I'm not interested.

I now consider getting a Kiss a good way to judge her interest.

(I ask before a Kiss, though some women have called this lame.)
i think it shows respect and i would really appreciate a date asking.my permission to kiss me. even if i like the guy, i would be nervous about a kiss the first time we go out. too many other things are new. i could use some time to think about all we talked about during the date. The second date would be a really nice time to try a first kiss for me. Every woman is different so the other advice you get here is as valid as mine.

Good luck!!
 
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readytodate wrote :
so...what's the consensus, is it okay to kiss on the first date? and if so, should it just be a peck, or can it be a little more, ahem, in-depth.
I'm a guy so, it depends on the woman(whether she allows me to or not.)
 
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Clearly I am the only woman who has kissed the guy. Cause, ya know, I get bored while this debate plays out in your heads.......

Women, when you have talked for hours and he still talks to you for another 30 minutes at your car he is building up courage to kiss you. Put the poor guy out of his misery. Guys.....yeah, we know.
 
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I still try to kiss my ex-wife in front of her new fiance, so you can probably guess what my answer is. In life, I always go with what makes me happy. I don't place rules on myself and really can't understand why other people do this to themselves. Actually, I do understand. People care what other people think about them far too much. "How long do I have to wait to have sex with a man before I am no longer considered to be loose?" Puhlease. Life becomes many times more enjoyable when you stop caring what other people think. Put on your sunglasses and smile.
 
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If you're having such a good time with someone that it just seems natural. . .go for it. Asking seems very awkward to me. . .I like it when everything just falls into place. . .I won't lie - alcohol may help.
 
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