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Because we've been exposed to fairy tales since childhood, it's natural to think that our love lives are a fairy tale just waiting to happen. Buying into these common love myths can ruin your chances at finding a true mate.
- May 27th, 2008, 09:37 pm
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Great article!
- May 28th, 2008, 01:45 am
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I might have had those myths in mind in my 20's butthat allchanged in my 30's. Life happened and debunked those myths.

- May 29th, 2008, 03:47 pm
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I met and have dated several ladies after shaking those theories BUT let me say they didn't work out not because of my pre conceived notions of how they should or shouldn't be but because I just didn't feel like I could see us together forever. Try to explain that one ,it s tough but the path of knowing what kind of qualaties I was looking for in a potential partner led me to find a woman whom I think is perfect FOR ME. So to this article I'll add decide what qualaties YOU WILL NEED in order to be happy with someone in life, and go for it. I personally have never been happier and she says the same thing, we both can't get enough of each other and she's my Queen and she makes life more beautiful for me by just being in mine, so don't fret (unless you're a guitarist) and take your time, take some advice from her matter a fact and read the book "He's Just Not That Into You" (for both guys and girls) and to each of you I wish you find thehappiness you all deserve and never forget (say it to yourself if ya half to) YOU DO DESERVE IT! Best of Luck


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- May 31st, 2008, 12:49 am
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Life is about love


and love is about life


you have to make choices to make the choice thats right


if you chose to lovethe wrong love


then try another that's right


but even though you don't have love


you should still love your life.
- June 25th, 2008, 03:31 pm
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Doesn't say much, I didn't know before. I have always known what it says about myth #5.
- June 29th, 2008, 10:49 pm
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