gothustartus is offline gothustartus Post #11  April 22,2010, 11:29pm
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Cheesey isn't automatically bad, it's memorable, but you have to overplay it to really make it work, just remember that ham and cheese doesn't just go together well in sandwiches.
 
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personally, I am a bit embarrassed by a guy bringing a rose or a date, or buying one from the rose sellers at different places. but that's just me. I wouldn't think anything bad of a guy who didn't bring one, so perhaps it's better to opt against it, just in case she is also uncomfortable. it can convey that a guy is being too needy/too much too fast kind of thing, too.

and I would ask if she wanted you to pick her up, or meet you at the location. make it her choice.

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Thanks a lot for all of the advice. Turns out her car caught on fire this morning, so I will be picking her up after all.
Another question, how do I know if it's ok to go in for the kiss?
 
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Her car caught on fire??? I wonder if all your decisions will be resolved so dramatically. Better not mention the rose again.
 
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stevex is offline stevex Post #15  April 26,2010, 12:07pm
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Don't think too much into the second date. Give her a call and make specific plans as others have suggested. As far as picking her up I would give her the option as I think it is a good idea just simply for the fact that you can talk in the car and such. Red rose is sweet do it if you want to and I am sure she will think it is grand.
 
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kazumaix wrote :
Hello. I just had a first date that I think it went very well and I am curious as to what should my next move be. Our first date we met at a mom & pop cafe. I expected us to talk for an hour or so and then head our separate ways. What I thought would take an hour or so actually turned into 3 and a half hours of talking and laughing. At the end I told her I really enjoyed myself and would like to see her again, to which she said "definitely". I texted her the next afternoon and told her about the great time I had and that we should meet up again soon, which she agreed. I want to take her out to a nice dinner, but I want to know if I should pick her up at her place and give her a rose? I'm not to sure how comfortable most woman are having a guy picking them up at their home on a second date and if a rose is cheesy. Thanks for any help you all can offer me.
I'm no expert, but I'd suggest you just ask her if she'd prefer you pick her up for the nice dinner or she meet you there. I'd also save the rose for a later date. It's a nice touch for when you've gotten to know her better and you've started to be romantic (kissing, etc).

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