backtothefuture is offline backtothefuture Post #1  April 16,2010, 8:29am
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I founf an old crush from high School on Facebook.I think the attraction was mutual back then. In HS, I bet we didn't speak more than 50 words to each other. In any event, I asked her out to dinner to catchup and she agreed. We went out and ended up having a few drinks and good conversation for about three hours. I really couldn't get a read on if she thought it was a date or just a get together. I told her I was sorry we didn't get a chance to eat and she said "next time." I said I'd really like that and she said she would too.

I've been out of dating for about 17 years. My questiion for the ladies is would you say this to someone if you had no intention of dating? Did she think we were on a date?

Any advice or observations are apreciated.
 
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Of course they would, they are just like men, only a different gender. Ask her out a second time, if she does not respond or the response is no, you will have an answer. If it is positive, you will have an answer too. Need to develop some thick skin.
 
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howardtheduck wrote :
Of course they would, they are just like men, only a different gender. Ask her out a second time, if she does not respond or the response is no, you will have an answer. If it is positive, you will have an answer too. Need to develop some thick skin.
Yep, what you said.
 
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