Running of the mouth

I absolutely agree-I am so better off now than later. I just need a vent for a minute I suppose!

I just had my first Eharmony date and while the date itself wasn't bad, there were a few things that kind of bothered me and then the ending of the whole deal.
We go to dinner, good conversation and then out for a drink, still OK conversation but then a few things gave me pause. He told me that there was plenty of room for me in his life even with his close friends, then asked me out to a local event that is 4 weeks out, and then offered to take me to his mom's for a day outing. Now at this point I'm kind of surprised as we've only just met and I've been really burned by guys moving too fast and I'm very cautious. We leave and he offers to call me and do this again so I say OK since I don't want to make judgements off just one date since first dates can be really hard!
When I email him 2 days later thanking him for the date and looking forward to the next, he "didn't want to mislead me" and doesn't think now is a good time, etc, etc. WHAT? I was totally willling to ignore some of my gut instincts after he ran on at the mouth and that's what he says? This is not the first guy that's run off at the mouth and then abruptly ended it. Just stop with the mouth guys!

Just an observation....what did you verbally say and your body say when he mentioned about doing these things?

He may have read what your actions were as you werent interested.

He may also have had a date in between these two times with someone else that seemed to go better.

Guys will use questions like that to gauge what the woman will say and then decide who this person is for a future relationship potential.


Also...from my experience...woman are just as crazy pulling this stuff. Except she usually tells me that she "became suddenly all busy with some event in her life and needed to take care of it"