happypants1 is offline happypants1 Post #1  March 16,2010, 6:37am
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So do men typically email a woman the next day saying "it was nice to meet you and I had an amazing time" if they aren't interested in seeing you again?

Is that considered polite or good etiquette even if he isn't interested in a 2nd date??

He was heading out of town the next day on business and said he didn't know when he would be back.

Thanks!
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happypants1 wrote :
So do men typically email a woman the next day saying "it was nice to meet you and I had an amazing time" if they aren't interested in seeing you again?

Is that considered polite or good etiquette even if he isn't interested in a 2nd date??

Thanks!
I only take it at the face value. If he only says that he had a good time without setting another date, I would tell myself there is no second date.
 
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Usually after the first phone call, and certainly after the first date, I don't do much e-mail with dates except to tell them I don't think we're a good match. I prefer to use the phone but I will answer any e-mails.
 
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happypants1 wrote :
So do men typically email a woman the next day saying "it was nice to meet you and I had an amazing time" if they aren't interested in seeing you again?

Is that considered polite or good etiquette even if he isn't interested in a 2nd date??

He was heading out of town the next day on business and said he didn't know when he would be back.

Thanks!
I would say it depends on the guy. If you are interested in seeing him again I would call him or email him suggesting another date when he gets back in town. His answer will be telling.

Best of luck
 
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He was heading out of town the next day on business and said he didn't know when he would be back.

Thanks!
I'm a guy and this sounds like thanks, but no thanks. If he's interest he'll make the time to keep in touch even if he's a secret agent and going on a double secret mission.
 
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