Second Date Danger Zone

Second Date Danger Zone

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RNgoof is offline RNgoof Post #1  February 18,2010, 5:40pm
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Communication is the key!  Being honest about how youre feeling...disclosing the sexual tension you are experiencing is a great opener for the tip of the iceburg...which may lead to an avalanche of peculiar or uncomfortable requests.  Either way, you are in control.  Don't forget that it takes two.  One takes a risk...the other appreciates the effort and reciprocates with sincerity and appreciation.  Make it clear you expect honesty, communication and mature exchanges with emotions, physical attraction and how to deal with those intense endorphines wanting to take over!!  Establish your expectations first!
 
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Wouldn't it be easier to just order another Beer?
 
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gcoleman99 is offline gcoleman99 Post #3  February 19,2010, 8:35pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Wouldn't it be easier to just order another Beer?
Not if you don't LIKE beer!
 
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NiceGuysFinishFirst is offline NiceGuysFinishFirst Post #4  February 20,2010, 12:07am

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Great article. I think that the quicker you dive into a relationship the quicker you're going to be out of one or a potential one. From my own personal experience, you gotta do the "courtship dance." One step at a time. One day at a time. It's not a bad thing for someone to miss you.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #5  February 20,2010, 9:27am
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Should I have read the article
 
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Wouldn't it be easier to just order another Beer?
 
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RNgoof is offline RNgoof Post #7  February 21,2010, 9:27am
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Sure...if you're in for a superficial night w/a tart!
 
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jussmile is offline jussmile Post #8  February 21,2010, 9:34am
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
Should I have read the article
No... just said dating and relationships are more like a marathon than a sprint.

I kinda see what the article is getting at, but I think it more depends on the people. I think some people would rather go slow, and those relationships can work...while others can go faster, and those relationships can work as well. What's more important to me is that both people are at the same pace. If not, that's where the real trouble begins.
 
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ratedPG is offline ratedPG Post #9  February 21,2010, 9:39am
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Okay...so...this is SO not appropriate....but...*****PERK**** at "just dive in..."!!!!!!!!!!
 
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laxplyer999 is offline laxplyer999 Post #10  February 21,2010, 3:38pm
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How come they didnt discuss where to go on a second date, im looking for ideas...we did the drink thing...now do we do the dinner thing????
 
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