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sparkle8003 is offline sparkle8003 Post #1  February 7,2010, 12:45pm
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Ok it is the all time classic question for the you, a guy gives me his number last night. Then he sent me a text saying; it was wonderful to meet me. Last night he told me to call him today. Soooo now the question is, when do I call? I have NOT contacted him yet. Trying to play it cool. So what is the next move?
 
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Are you asking "when should you call?"

Did you agree at that time to speak today? If so, definitely follow through on that.

If he just asked you to call today, and you did not agree, I'd say call when you feel like talking to him.

Personally, my interest drops off fast when I see lack of follow-through to commitments - however, I would not have "told" a woman when do call me!
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #3  February 7,2010, 12:53pm
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actually, your first move should have been to not take his number. but i'm a girl so i guess i shouldnt be answering. maybe for next time
 
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Well I am asking when to call. I am trying not to be appear i guess available. MAN I HATE THESE STAGES OF GAMES!!!!
 
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sparkle8003 is offline sparkle8003 Post #5  February 7,2010, 12:55pm
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To Nanette: I don't mind if you answer! I love ALL advice. Thank you I just might have to call him this evening.
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #6  February 7,2010, 12:56pm
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you took his number which is not playing it cool really at all imo.

i think you should just call him since he cant call you and you took his number as if you were going to call him
 
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Well he took my number and sent me a text last night. As a female, why is that I ALWAYS have to desect EVERYTHING. But i am sure I am not the only woman who does this! LOL!
 
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Ok... this is finally one item I disagree with Nanette on... I do not give out my number... just don't do it! There are so many crazys out there, I had to learn the hard way. Nope, not getting my number until I feel completely comfortable with you.

I will take your number though. And, if I say I'll call you tomorrow, I'll call you tomorrow. If I say, I'll try to call, I probably won't call and was trying to be polite.

Sounds like you want to call this guy, just want to make sure you don't seem desparate. There's a fine line between seeming desparate and not interested. Call him when you're in a quite place, and have something to say. Be yourself, don't worry about the games.
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #9  February 7,2010, 1:13pm
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Pay as you go

Then shoot if he has your number dont call him. Sending you a text of him telling you to call him is weak.
 
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jussmile is offline jussmile Post #10  February 7,2010, 1:17pm
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Nanette wrote :
Pay as you go .
Ok... you got me!
 
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