The Dating Rule of Tom Leykis--not for the faint of heart.


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justme27 is offline justme27 Post #1  January 30,2010, 8:14pm
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I'm starting this thread primarily because I'm bored and thought discussion, friendly discussion would be fun.

Once upon a time there was a dating expert named Tom Leykis. He wasn't so much of a dating expert as a guy who was on the radio who helped guys pick up on girls. Here is a list of rules he had for men to follow. Women have rules these are his rules.

Caution, I'm not endorsing his views. This is just for the sake of discussion.

  • $40.00 Limit - Never spend then $40 no a date. >>
  • 3 Dates Rule - Stop seeing the girl if you do not get laid after the third date. >>
  • No Means No - If she says no then, STOP, get your stuff, and leave. >>
  • Single Mothers - Never date single mothers. >>
  • Tabasco Sauce - After having sex pour Tabasco sauce into the used condom. >>
  • Co-worker Relationships - Never date a co-worker. >>
  • Approaching Women in Groups - Never approach a woman in a club that's surrounded by her girlfriends. >>
  • Sex To Go - No spooning, cuddling, and or staying over after sex. >>
  • Relationships - Do not get into a serious relationship before the age of 25. >>
  • Weekend Dates - Do not go out on weekend dates unless you are guaranteed sex. >>
  • Cell Phone Dates - If your dates cell phone rings during the date then immediately leave. >>
  • Women in Bars - Sit at a bar alone and do not talk to any women. >>
  • After Hours Homely Pickings - The ugly women are the last one's to get picked up. >>
  • Birth Control - Regardless of what a woman says always use birth control. >>
  • No Gifts - No gifts are ever given to booty calls and women you are dating. >>
  • Beverage Consumption - Buy Hard Alcohol over Beer. >>
  • Types of Dates - Avoid lunch and or coffee dates. >>
  • Jerks - If women think you are a jerk, then your doing something right. >>
  • Master Filibusters - Do directly from the bar the bedroom. >>
  • Eating Before Dates - Have a hearty meal before a date. >>
  • Marriage Contract - Never marry with out a prenuptial agreement. >>
  • You Choose the date - You choose what to do on the date. >>
  • Income and Women - The amount of income you have often determines the type of women you get. >>
  • Male Friends - All her male friends want to have sex with her. >>
  • No Sex At Your House - Never bring a woman home for sex. >>
  • No Compliments - Never compliment a woman. >>
  • Easily Replaceable - Have her know that if she does not put out then you will get it else where. >>
  • Holidays - Break up with your women during those money sucking holiday seasons. >>
  • Change is not Inevitable - Do not change who you are just for a woman. >>
  • Prepare your Identity - Be the doctor she wants or the million she's looking for. >>
  • Power Before Kids and Marriage - Men have the most power before kids and a family. >>
  • Paternity Test - Always get a paternity test no matter how sure you are that it is your child. >>
  • No DNA Donation - Never help a women you have no intention of marring have kids. >>
  • Women Are Dream Killers - They want to reach their dreams and stop yours. >>
  • Ultimatum, Run - If a women gives you an ultimatum then run and don't look back. >>
  • Giving and Getting Phone Numbers - Give your number out to as many women as possible. >>
  • Women on Vacation - Your women's on vacation and she maybe sleeping with other guys. >>
  • Don't Move In With Girlfriend - Do not move in with your girlfriend. >>
  • Don't Call Her Back - Don't call her back after the date. >>
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I think Tom Leykis got some issues. I know a friend who used to listen to him after his divorce...but he met a really nice woman through EH and I bet you he doesn't listen to Tom anymore.

Tom Leykis MAYBE is good to listen to if you want to get your venom out after a bad break up or something..and get your frustration out....but definitely not something you want to live by.
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This is a list about picking women up, not dating them.
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My feelings about Tom Leykis are similar to what my feelings would be about a woman who offered similar (misandric in tone) advice about dating / landing a man:

Disgusting.
 
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justme27 wrote :
I'm starting this thread primarily because I'm bored and thought discussion, friendly discussion would be fun.

Once upon a time there was a dating expert named Tom Leykis. He wasn't so much of a dating expert as a guy who was on the radio who helped guys pick up on girls. Here is a list of rules he had for men to follow. Women have rules these are his rules.

Caution, I'm not endorsing his views. This is just for the sake of discussion.

  • $40.00 Limit - Never spend then $40 no a date. >>
  • 3 Dates Rule - Stop seeing the girl if you do not get laid after the third date. >>
  • No Means No - If she says no then, STOP, get your stuff, and leave. >>
  • Single Mothers - Never date single mothers. >>
  • Tabasco Sauce - After having sex pour Tabasco sauce into the used condom. >>
  • Co-worker Relationships - Never date a co-worker. >>
  • Approaching Women in Groups - Never approach a woman in a club that's surrounded by her girlfriends. >>
  • Sex To Go - No spooning, cuddling, and or staying over after sex. >>
  • Relationships - Do not get into a serious relationship before the age of 25. >>
  • Weekend Dates - Do not go out on weekend dates unless you are guaranteed sex. >>
  • Cell Phone Dates - If your dates cell phone rings during the date then immediately leave. >>
  • Women in Bars - Sit at a bar alone and do not talk to any women. >>
  • After Hours Homely Pickings - The ugly women are the last one's to get picked up. >>
  • Birth Control - Regardless of what a woman says always use birth control. >>
  • No Gifts - No gifts are ever given to booty calls and women you are dating. >>
  • Beverage Consumption - Buy Hard Alcohol over Beer. >>
  • Types of Dates - Avoid lunch and or coffee dates. >>
  • Jerks - If women think you are a jerk, then your doing something right. >>
  • Master Filibusters - Do directly from the bar the bedroom. >>
  • Eating Before Dates - Have a hearty meal before a date. >>
  • Marriage Contract - Never marry with out a prenuptial agreement. >>
  • You Choose the date - You choose what to do on the date. >>
  • Income and Women - The amount of income you have often determines the type of women you get. >>
  • Male Friends - All her male friends want to have sex with her. >>
  • No Sex At Your House - Never bring a woman home for sex. >>
  • No Compliments - Never compliment a woman. >>
  • Easily Replaceable - Have her know that if she does not put out then you will get it else where. >>
  • Holidays - Break up with your women during those money sucking holiday seasons. >>
  • Change is not Inevitable - Do not change who you are just for a woman. >>
  • Prepare your Identity - Be the doctor she wants or the million she's looking for. >>
  • Power Before Kids and Marriage - Men have the most power before kids and a family. >>
  • Paternity Test - Always get a paternity test no matter how sure you are that it is your child. >>
  • No DNA Donation - Never help a women you have no intention of marring have kids. >>
  • Women Are Dream Killers - They want to reach their dreams and stop yours. >>
  • Ultimatum, Run - If a women gives you an ultimatum then run and don't look back. >>
  • Giving and Getting Phone Numbers - Give your number out to as many women as possible. >>
  • Women on Vacation - Your women's on vacation and she maybe sleeping with other guys. >>
  • Don't Move In With Girlfriend - Do not move in with your girlfriend. >>
  • Don't Call Her Back - Don't call her back after the date. >>
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PY_2 wrote :
I think Tom Leykis got some issues. I know a friend who used to listen to him after his divorce...but he met a really nice woman through EH and I bet you he doesn't listen to Tom anymore.

Tom Leykis MAYBE is good to listen to if you want to get your venom out after a bad break up or something..and get your frustration out....but definitely not something you want to live by.
Py ever the reasonable man. No, I was never a big Tom Leykis fan for a couple of reasons: the primary reason is that his show was unoriginal for the most part. Meaning once you listened to one show, you basically have heard them all--just ranting about women and stuff.

I did however go to one of his listener parties. I witnessed it with my own eyes, the women loved him for some reason.

So anyway, I just posted the list for the sake of discussion.
 
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Sounds a lot like Ceasar the geezer, he had a talk radio show over here a few years back that i listened to just to see what he'd say next.
 
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justme27 wrote :
Py ever the reasonable man. No, I was never a big Tom Leykis fan for a couple of reasons: the primary reason is that his show was unoriginal for the most part. Meaning once you listened to one show, you basically have heard them all--just ranting about women and stuff.

I did however go to one of his listener parties. I witnessed it with my own eyes, the women loved him for some reason.

So anyway, I just posted the list for the sake of discussion.
They have names for women like that. Sometimes they're call escorts, sometimes models. Sometimes professional party-goers. There's another name for them I won't mention. Point is they probably were all being paid.
 
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