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A good judge to know the risk of pass relationships coming back to bite you on your arse is to look at:

single= how long since the last break up (weeks).

new= time spend in the relationship with you (weeks)

time= how long did the relationship last (weeks)

serious= seriousness relationship factor (0-10). O was a fling, a long term relationship would be a score 4-6, add 1 or 2 if it was a live in relationship. Engaged 5-9. If it was a marriage then it would be 7-10.

break-up= how did the relatonship end (1-10). Trust was broken would produce a 7-10 score, a drifting apart would be a lower score (4-6). Having it end out of the blue unexpectedly that you were really hurt would be a low score (1-3). Lower the score---the more likely you would take them back if they showed up knocking at the door wanting you back.

risk= time * [serious/break-up]- (single + new)

The lower the number the lower the risk in the relationship.


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How many Beers at the first date?

+ matching bra and bottom, extra points.

Can not find a text message device in her house, more points!
 
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if i had to do all that i wouldnt bother
 
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Nanette wrote :
if i had to do all that i wouldnt bother

That's what I said the last time I watched a Lady get her hair ready!
 
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That's what I said the last time I watched a Lady get her hair ready!
did you like it?
 
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Nanette wrote :
did you like it?

Mine turned grey while I waited.
 
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What's a "pass" relationship? Is that when you toss a football to your partner?
 
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Nanette wrote :
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I like to watch too.
 
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Have you actually used this formula? Plotted your results in excel? Passed it onto your friends and coworkers and correlated their responses? Is this proven?

Sorry...there is so much emotional involvement and risk in a relationship I don't think I would have the energy, or heart, to factor additional variables into an equation.
 
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OverAnalyzer wrote :
Sorry...there is so much emotional involvement and risk in a relationship I don't think I would have the energy, or heart, to factor additional variables into an equation.

You could skip the emotion?
 
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