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yankeefan2009 is offline yankeefan2009 Post #1  January 27,2010, 9:00pm
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Went out a few dat ago at the end of the date he mentioned possibly goin out Sat.I said that would be great we should talk later in the week.I emailed saying I had a great time and was looking foward to seeing him again.He texted sayiing hi and that his day was going well.Mow it is two days from the date and 2 days from Sat and no call .Am I worrying for nothing would he mention a second date if he didn't want to see me again?
 
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Only 1 way to find out.....simply inquire if Saturday is still on or not.
 
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BubblyGirliGirl wrote :
Only 1 way to find out.....simply inquire if Saturday is still on or not.
Stop that. It demystifies the whole thing.

Yup, what she said.
 
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People say things, people go home and think about things, other things come, people change their minds. Rather than sitting and wondering, ask him flat out if you are still on for Sat. or not, so that you can make other plans if he backs out.
 
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You have to be specific with a man. "that would be great we should talk later in the week" means anytime during the rest of the week. He might call you up Friday night to set plans for Saturday and that would be perfectly fine in his eyes since you just said "later in the week.

If you really want to see him again then book your next date at the end of the current date. If he can't commit yet because of work schedule etc. then book a specific night and time for him to call you when he knows his schedule.
 
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Yeah, just contact him and ask if you're still on for Saturday and that you're looking forward to it. Then if he responds positively, finalize plans or atleast when/where you're gonna meet and how at that time.

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My best advice, call him up, tell him you would like to see him saturday and see what happens. I wouldn't worry too much, he will either want to go out Saturday or if he is busy schedule for another time.
 
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I agree with Stevex.

Personally I would have set the second meeting before concluding the first, but then perhaps he really did have an uncertain event for Sat.
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #9  January 28,2010, 2:53pm
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You were "bookmarked".

If nothing better comes along, you're on, if something better does? Then no sorry he's going to be busy.

I would not call this maroon. Let him contact you, and if he calls tomorrow asking for Saturday I would say no.
 
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Nanette - was that you one starring the guys?? lol!

I agree with the guys on this. I think men don't think about the calling before Wednesday to set up a date for the weekend rule.

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