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It’s powerful, seductive and speaks every language. Sex appeal. Tapping into it is easy—and it hardly has anything to do with your appearance.

- December 29th, 2007, 01:03 am
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my husband and i have been together for 25 years. only when we understood the whole mind body soul thing did our relationship flourish into an eternal love affair. he says if i died he would die and i feel the same way.
- December 29th, 2007, 04:58 am
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sex appeal yes please
- December 29th, 2007, 04:59 am
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That was a beautiful article thank you...If you aren't in touch with God you are too easily influenced by what is on the outside &God gives you strength & a sense of purity on the inside---&faith that everything will be okay & better.
- December 29th, 2007, 05:00 am
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Great article. I have to admit I've never looked at sex appeal from this perspective before. But it makes so much sense and I've sure got alot of work to do! Thanks for this great advice.
- December 29th, 2007, 06:57 am
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I find your message on the Secret of Sex Appeal to be spectacular, as I learn more about taking care of my body and soul, I realize that their is no greater love then of my physical presence. A healthy and whole sexual appeal, is what I am going after. I LOVE someone so much that he has the sexual appeal I am looking for, he takes care of his body and soul very well. Our souls are intertwining, and us coming closer together is what I foresee in the future. Terrie
- December 29th, 2007, 09:11 am
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Sex appeal I feel is related to many things. Some one may be attracted to you by your facial features or your body depending on age. Alot of our sex appeals usually become a one night stand but if were lookng for just dating or a long time commitment then there are other factors that play to sex appeal. So to a point I agree that looks are only a small part of sex appeal. Secondly one thing that a lady enjoys is communication. If you can't talk with your mate whether your married or single then theres a wide gap in that relationship. If a man can communicate with a lady then sex appeal grows naturally. I feel many marriages are falling apart just because of communication. Talk to your partner. Is spiritually sexual attraction. Ask God. I would say no to most people, but i'm sure a few would disagree with me and thats fine, thats why were individuals. Hope my suggestions help.
- December 29th, 2007, 09:33 am
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excellent !
- December 29th, 2007, 09:56 am
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WOW!!!
Thanks so much!
I have a 14 year old daughter and 16 year old son who spend a lot of time cruising the Net. Sometimes I check in on snag lines like "Sex Appeal" to see what kind of propaganda they might be lured into reading. I was sucked deeply into your piece when I realized it actually led to a meaningful conclusion about Wholeness and individual worth. How refreshing!
Thanks again!!!
Diane p.s. i dare you to keep it up :-)
- December 29th, 2007, 10:08 am
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When you're over 50 Its hard feeling sexy about anything.
- December 29th, 2007, 10:09 am
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