The Secret of Sex Appeal

The Secret of Sex Appeal

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trun201187 is offline trun201187 Post #181  September 15,2008, 12:18am
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It was a great experience to read this artical, totally agreed with these lines. Because when we think about such points we should be able do this. We should get in touch with our soul. It reflects ones inner and outer personalities also. While reading this artical i compared myself with the central idea given in this artical and then i came to know my positive and negatives points. Thanks a lot for sharing such a useful artical.[img]../library/editor/plugins/emotions/img/smiley-smile.gif[/img]
 
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thanks so much this article really helped!
 
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Asil74 is offline Asil74 Post #183  November 3,2008, 11:33pm
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ABSO-freakin-LUTELY ... if only we trusted ourselves to be who we want to be and not what we think others want us to be. I find people more interesting and attractive [even women] when they are a little different in how they think and express themselves.


Why are we so afraid to be who we want to be - a positive, fun & carefree individual? Are we too consumed in trying to be more than we can afford - either emotionally or financially?
 
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It has always been about the whole package. Love yourself first body and soul causes others to love you!
 
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oldstarsnewsky is offline oldstarsnewsky Post #185  February 10,2009, 3:11pm
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Wikipedia Questions has an article on How to be sexy...it's become a joke between me and my friends! This is so much more helpful,and real. Everyone should read this.
 
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I am surely suprised that the results of your analysis came back so close to my true personality inner and outer,after the questionare,but i still can have a good friend based on the resultsand compatability thank you very much CARLOS.
 
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dragon108 is offline dragon108 Post #187  September 10,2009, 6:41am
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Nice eHarmony. You article talks about the importance of inner beauty, and you have advertisements for erectile dysfunction. No wonder we are all so screwed up.
 
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khanhhorst is offline khanhhorst Post #188  September 10,2009, 8:49am
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It is true that regardless of how 'sexy' one is, after a make out, what left is still the mind and soul of the two persons.  If there is nothing beyond the sex appeal that exists, it' time to say goodbye whether temporary or permanently.  even with a self disgusted feeling.  But, if there is something else from the heart and soul that attracts one another - the inner strength that could never go away from one's feelings toward the other.  And that is called true love.  That is why LOVE is such a magical word.  Thanks for your analysis. 
 
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Moonlit_Child_Wandering is offline Moonlit_Child_Wandering Post #189  September 10,2009, 7:46pm
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MiamiRich wrote :
This article should have been written only if it were still 1950. In todays world this does not apply. It is only a straight womans point of view, which in todays world is a quarter of the group. Most straight men do not feel this way, and most gay men do not either. I can't speak for lesbians but that is another viewpoint left out. It was a weak effort Diane.
Not sure what Diane said (is she the author of this piece?... hmm) but the fact that you're closing yourself off to the idea of self awareness as a human thing is aggravating, at least personally, and places myself and the rest of the male pop. in a poorly labeled box.

People are made the same in the sense that they have the ability to learn from actions/behaviors whether they are male or female, and the ability to choose whether to do so or not is also a common factor in all sexes.

I, personally speaking, think inwardly more often than not which is most likely the reason why I'm on this site in the first place. I thought it would be poor of me not to comment on this though... what was said is belittling to those who you're criticizing and probably didn't take the kind of inward thinking you wrote as being strictly a female thing.

You'll be at a better advantage if you're patient, understanding and willing to surround yourself with a multitude of perspectives... and by the article's text, you would have that brainy sex appeal down too!
 
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I have to admit, the point of the article gets lost behind all those competing ads surrounding it hounding us to thicken our lips, lose belly fat, smear on wrinkle cream. Those ads get rather tiresome. I know that they help pay for the Advice service, but it sure would be nice to see something other than a "change your face, eyes, lips, wasteline, bustsize, hairdo..." ads. At times I dread logging on, preparing to dodge those seiziure-producing ads to get to the article and blog text.
 
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