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Can_I_just_be_Jo is offline Can_I_just_be_Jo Post #1  January 19,2010, 7:20am

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Yeah all you men haters this applies to you as well! Why do you date? Why do you come on here with women/men suck! My god if you hate the opposite gender stop trying to date us. It will do us a favor as well as most people's time is valuable.

Thing is when you come on here with that carp you are going to get one of two responses, ALWAYS!! One from the gender being bashed pointing out that you were wronged by only one of that group and they don't appreciate being lumped together with them. The other from members of your gender going, go you!

Eventually someone from your gender will post saying stop making us look bad not everyone from our gender hates the other gender.

Just an observation but guys/gals you do know the same group of people bash the other gender over and over. So to you guys why are you here or trying to date when you hate so much?
 
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I don't think people here actually hate women, I think there a number of people that are upset with the way the opposite gender can act sometimes. I think that people do have a tendency to make broad generalizations that can cause some real flame wars. I think there are a lot of people here who have truly been wronged in past relationships and it really burns and while they are trying to move on they are still hurt and trying to rationalize how they could be treated the way they were.

My best advice is to understand that sometimes people spout things that they really don't mean out of anger and sadness. I mean what is the first thing a guy or woman does when they break up with someone, they make some comment about how they just can't live with the opposite sex, how all men or all women are just terrible. I say ignore it, understand they likely don't mean it.
 
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Hey guys, stop making us look bad, not everyone from our gender hates the other gender.
 
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The thing is it is not how women can act or men for that matter. It is how some people can act.

I posted this because the same group jump in for both genders with go you posts. I have been posting here for around four months, really that is a long time to hold a grudge over a bad date.

I don't mean this in an angry way either but more of is there anything we can do to help you get over this cause hating a gender over a few bad people is not something I would want to see someone carry for the rest of their lives. I mean how sad is it if they meet their perfect match but they are still angry with some ignorant person who acted badly and miss what they are seeing.
 
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tweet37 wrote :
Hey guys, stop making us look bad, not everyone from our gender hates the other gender.
I love everyone, well except those that feel 60mph is an acceptable speed for the fast lane. Even those I don't hate but I wish they would get out of my way.
 
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Can_I_just_be_Jo wrote :
I love everyone, well except those that feel 60mph is an acceptable speed for the fast lane. Even those I don't hate but I wish they would get out of my way.
I love everyone too. Except for those who think the left lane is the fast lane.
Last edited by tweet37; January 19,2010 at 8:09am. Reason: It's the passing lane. Get the hail outta the way !
 
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tweet37 wrote :
I love everyone too. Except for those who think the left lane is the fast lane.
My bad, the passing lane. Better?
 
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Can_I_just_be_Jo wrote :
The thing is it is not how women can act or men for that matter. It is how some people can act.

I posted this because the same group jump in for both genders with go you posts. I have been posting here for around four months, really that is a long time to hold a grudge over a bad date.

I don't mean this in an angry way either but more of is there anything we can do to help you get over this cause hating a gender over a few bad people is not something I would want to see someone carry for the rest of their lives. I mean how sad is it if they meet their perfect match but they are still angry with some ignorant person who acted badly and miss what they are seeing.
Excellent thread, Jo. Sadly, I suspect the answer is "no". Some people just can't be helped. The gender-hating (from both sides) stems from low self-esteem.

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I love everyone, well except those that feel 60mph is an acceptable speed for the fast lane. Even those I don't hate but I wish they would get out of my way.
Just knock them out of the way!
 
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zal wrote :
Excellent thread, Jo. Sadly, I suspect the answer is "no". Some people just can't be helped. The gender-hating (from both sides) stems from low self-esteem.
I can see the low self-seteem but there has to be more.


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Just knock them out of the way!
I would but I really like my car and then there is the insurance issues.
 
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Can_I_just_be_Jo wrote :
Why do you date?
They don't...reason below.

Can_I_just_be_Jo wrote :
why are you here when you hate so much?
Because they're running out of people in real life who listen to their schitt, too stubborn to change, and instead of owning up to their own issues and letting go of their past, they lash out at others hoping it'll get better.

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