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rybelles is offline rybelles Post #1  January 18,2010, 2:53pm
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I'm 40. I just had a new match close me and the reason he gave was "I believe the age difference is TOO great" or something like that.

Really? Dude..your are 37.
 
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I am sorry about that

I have had that done before to me when it wasnt a big age difference.

I am 40 too, I can relate.

I think though with a man that he might prefer someone younger than him because he would like to have children and he might be thinking that after 40 a woman cant have kids.
 
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Contango is offline Contango Post #3  January 18,2010, 3:08pm
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I'm thinkin' you are better off anyway.
 
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brneyedangel is offline brneyedangel Post #4  January 18,2010, 3:26pm
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ACK! I just turned 40! I'm not liking the sound of this...

Maybe he can't count past 37 and realized you're far superior to him.
 
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Wait until you're nearly fifty. Then, all the idiots will leave you alone.

It simply clears the path for the ones worth bothering over.
 
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trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #6  January 18,2010, 3:50pm

what the bejeezus is going on round here?!

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I was never this hot till I turned 40. I bet it was the same for you.

Yeah, we were pretty smoking throughout our 30s but completely on fire since the big four Owwwww baby!

Don't worry yourself honey, if they can't stand the heat then they really should stay out of the kitchen!


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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #7  January 18,2010, 3:53pm
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I think the age difference is too great is an option? Its like having the option to close based on weight or height
 
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LizziePooh is offline LizziePooh Post #8  January 18,2010, 3:57pm

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I have aged the last couple of years. I am more scared of the guy that uses that reason after he meets me.
 
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He's projecting his "age hang-up" onto you.
 
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Calm2010 is offline Calm2010 Post #10  January 18,2010, 4:30pm
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I had a date tell me I was a cougar. I was 46 and he was 43. I guess that might qualify but I really wasn’t expecting to hear that about a 43 year old.

The 40s are lovely years. If the Ops match was rude enough to use that close message he isn’t someone she wants to hang around with!
 
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