KungFuFtr is offline KungFuFtr Post #1  January 15,2010, 3:29pm
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If a lady has chosen me for communication, do I have to take her out on a date?
 
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Nope you can always decline, close her out if not interested, etc. You always have a choice.
 
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First meetings should be shared cost regardless of who takes each prior step (unless you work for the Taliban.)

I would not suggest to her that she pay for you, due to her having sent a message.

However, this is an adeal case where it does make sense to ask her to contribute (not that you should ever have to ask.)
 
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D_Lion wrote :
First meetings should be shared cost regardless of who takes each prior step (unless you work for the Taliban.)
i dont recall reading anything about money.

i think you think about money and numbers more than sex.
 
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Undoubtedly.
 
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busted!
 
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Nanette wrote :
i think you think about money and numbers more than sex.
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Undoubtedly.

Missed it, eh?
 
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KungFuFtr wrote :
If a lady has chosen me for communication, do I have to take her out on a date?
Heck no!

But at least talk to the girl and see if she's interesting.

My mind is trying to come up with how she expressed that you "had" to take her on a date. Chosen one? So, if I chose to talk to a certain guy in a bar, does that mean he has to buy me a drink? That is just weird!
 
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How do you know you're not one of the chosen many? Maybe she's started communication with a bunch of different guys just to find out more about them. Weird concept, huh?
 
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KungFuFtr wrote :
If a lady has chosen me for communication, do I have to take her out on a date?
The answer is NO however... it is your manly duty to try to sleep with her at least once.
 
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