I_am_here_200 is offline I_am_here_200 Post #1  January 13,2010, 2:55pm
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So I met this guy from eH back in November, we had exchanged some texts prior to the date and I feel like we have a lot in common. I was rather nervous for the date but once I got there things went great. We went to dinner and talked for 2.5 hours with no akward silences and lots of laughing. I got a hug at the end of the night and he said we'd do it again. The next night I invited him over to my place and played some games (we both like those) and again had constant talking and laughing and a hug at the end with a promise to do it again. I ended up winning more than he did and so now I'm afraid that I have bruised his ego a bit. The text messages aren't as frequent now but we do have another date tonight. I'm unsure if he just wants to be friends or is interested in me. Maybe I'm reading too much into things and just need to be patient and let time do its thing?
 
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I see no reason at all to worry.

Less frequent messages is a good thing!

That you have another meeting scheduled is the part that matters.
 
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although I disagree that less frequent messages is a good thing (I like more regular communications), I would say what really matters is you have another date set up already. Tonight, after it's time for him to go, lean forward for him to give you a kiss. It's okay for you to show your interest to him in that way if you feel comfortable.
 
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Yep... look at the results. You ahve another date ~ that should tell you he's still interested. The only possible 'issue' here is if he thinks you're into him as just a "friend". So if you want to make it clear you're interested in him as more of a friend, make sure that message gets sent on the upcoming date.

Physical contact, closer proximity, etc. Even a kiss

Enjoy and let us know how it goes!

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Well while I didn't go in for that kiss lol I did get another hug, stronger than the ones I've gotten before and he said we might do something tonight. It felt more playful tonight but like you all said I do need to make sure he's aware I'm in to him as more than a friend. We shall see, I'll keep you posted on if we hang out later.
 
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Try this: lean close to him, look deeply into his eyes when you two are alone and think of how you care about him at the same time. He'll kiss you.
 
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For me, less frequent text messages might imply that he is wondering how interested you are and perhaps he is standing by waiting to see if you are going to message him. Send him a message -- he will appreciate it and if he replies than you know there is nothing to worry about.
 
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It seems that things are going along fine. It is also OK for you to initiate anything that you want to move the relationship along at a different pace. Communication is key to any relationship so tell him what you would like and how you feel. Hopefully he will be as open and share his desires and feelings.
 
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