Getting a girl's attention in online dating


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AndieIsMe is online now AndieIsMe — Advice Member-Moderator Post #21  January 12,2010, 6:49pm
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You want to show this girl you like her. More than the other people out there. She is special so you need to take care in how you correspond with her. Spelling (as the others pointed out) can be a huge issue. Punctuation, spacing (can't stand reading five words in one). You never know what will turn someone off, so be on your best behavior.
 
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TrekRyder10 wrote :
Darn! I was beginning to think I wasn't flirting correctly in my emails Heyyyyyy !! the more y's the more I'm flirting!
It's all about the emoticons not the extra letters!
 
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If this girl is really special to you, odds are she has been special to many other guys. With so many guys liking the same girl, how is a regualr Joe got a chance?

The solution is to make yourself stand out among others. Make your own profile make you look really good. You are a great guy, you just have to let the world know it (dont lie!). Make it so once she sees your profile she will know how cool you are.

After that, just let her know you exist. Just send her a message commenting on something in her profile casually. Like a band or tv show she likes that you like as well. Use this to establish communication, and build up from there, always remaining a tad bit aloof. Therefore, you will stand out from all those other guys that are desperate to get her, and make you look like the one she is aspiring to.
 
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If a girl is cute she gets to be told that a lot of the time so it isnt any thing flirting about it. Its just boring and like every thing else.

And texting is not the way ppl here want u to rite..ok? They want u 2 rite out all the words in sentance and paragraph and stuff. So we have to try harder becaus it isnt texting.

So find a better pick up line to use on Craig List LOL LOL LOL
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and also I hope u have a petter pic of u on ur profile cause this one isnt so good!!!!!!!!
 
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