Not returning phone calls. A new phenomenon?


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Mickey275 is offline Mickey275 Post #11  January 11,2010, 12:46pm
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Chicks do this all the time, man. But in the age of cell phones, there's no excuse for it. If you've left a couple of messages and haven't heard back from her, let it drop. Don't keep calling. Whether she's interested or not, if she doesn't have the common courtesy to return your call, that's all you need to know about her character (or lack thereof). Phone games are for kids, not adults.
 
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No doubt. I only call once. If I do not hear back, then on to the next case.
 
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Amazingly enough, she returned my phone call last night like at 10 PM. I was half awake an didn't recognized the phone number as I already erased it from my contacts list in my phone. Surprisingly, she left a VM. I will return her call tonight after 8 PM or so. Not to be rude or playing a game, but mainly cause I am busy already with another first meet. Even though she is/was the most interested of the bunch, already have this one setup for tonight.

Now, here's the tough question. Assuming things go well, and I get a first meet, when do you think I should set it up? Only reason why I asking is if I set it up for Wed. or Thurs. and it goes well, I am screwed for a second until next weekend. Already have plans for Friday and Saturday. Thinking if I set it up for this week I can screw myself out of a potential second. Should I shoot for sometime early next week?
 
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Are you talking about Delight #3? I think it's better to pace yourself and see if she is amenable to early next week. If she's not, well you sound like a person that thinks quick on their feet. Good luck.
 
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Delight # 3 we already have a second date set up for dinner @ 8:00 PM on Friday. I also have another engagement with some friends on Saturday. The one I am talking about is # 1. The one we started OC in early Dec., then we both got back. After e-mailing her seeing if she is interested in meeting. She replied and said yes. Called her, and then hadn't heard back from my VM for a few days called last night. Pretty late ironically, 10:00 PM. A friend of mine said people on the next she is on can get messages a few days later. Not sure if that is the case. Called her last Wed. I believe. She calls me back @ 10:00 PM last night.

So I was thinking of calling her back sometime after 9:00 tonight. Just after I get home. Since she can call me at 10:00 PM, calling her at 9:00 or so should not be an issue. So the problem at hand is when to set the meet. I am thinking of saying I am loaded with work and set it for like Monday or Tuesday next week. If all goes well, maybe a weekend date with her next week. This is of course I don't screw up on Friday with the second date with delight # 3.

A bit confusing.
 
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Feast or famine, as they say. I would offer my services as a personal secretary but I am a bit far away. Just don't mix up their names! Since she took this long to get back in touch, then she probably won't mind until next week.
 
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