Is it really in the KISS?!! Good or Bad...


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jussmile is offline jussmile Post #1  January 10,2010, 4:11pm
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I'm just curious if a date that is a really good kisser means anything. Is it that the person is a really good kisser... or is it that you really enjoy the person, and the power of their kiss comes through like electric currents because there is real chemistry there? Does it all equate to how they might be sexually?
 
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Wootz is offline Wootz Post #2  January 10,2010, 4:36pm
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Correlation does not equal causation- good kissers aren't always good in the sack. *grin* Enjoy good kisses. Don't try to think about them too much.
 
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jussmile is offline jussmile Post #3  January 10,2010, 4:49pm
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Wootz wrote :
Correlation does not equal causation- good kissers aren't always good in the sack. *grin* Enjoy good kisses. Don't try to think about them too much.
Really? I would think there would be a good correlation here... I'm talking about really good kissers. guys who know exactly where to put what and how to put it.
 
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Yeah, I wouldn't put any thought into there being a correlation between being a good kisser and being a good lover at all. Someone could be a great kisser and get you really hot from those kisses - but that doesn't mean they can satisfy you in bed. Trust me on that!! I had a boyfriend once - really great kisser....boring as h*ll in bed!!!
 
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In my experience, the better kissers are generally better in bed. The worst kissers are horrendous in bed. The in-between ones can go either way.

Again, that's just my experience, and it probably has as much to do with chemistry/compatibility as with technique.
 
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peg099 wrote :
In my experience, the better kissers are generally better in bed. The worst kissers are horrendous in bed. The in-between ones can go either way.

Again, that's just my experience, and it probably has as much to do with chemistry/compatibility as with technique.
That's what I was thinking. To me... someone who is a really good kisser, I mean, mind-blowing kisser... there is no way he couldn't be good in bed! I just don't see how that would be possible. If you know the right moves, how to ready body language and exactly what you're doing, I just don't see how you could be bad in other situations.But, that gets back to my original point... is a good kisser a good kisser because they're good, or because there is major chemistry and you're feeling electric shock?
 
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jussmile wrote :
Really? I would think there would be a good correlation here... I'm talking about really good kissers. guys who know exactly where to put what and how to put it.

That's funny!

I would agree this correlation, for two hypothesis:

- A "good Kisser" is turned on by his partner, and desires her.

- He is paying attention to her reactions, and implements adaptation to her subtlely, in real time.

Neither of these speak to skills at sex, but the same hypothesis may reasonable by assumed to apply there as well.
 
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peg099 wrote :
In my experience, the better kissers are generally better in bed.

Sounds like Peg wishes to update us on the Saturday night date!

Now that it is almost Monday.
 
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PY_2 is offline PY_2 Post #10  January 10,2010, 5:27pm

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I am VERY skillful in bed.
Last edited by PY_2; January 10,2010 at 5:28pm. Reason: I mean....to sleep.
 
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