Is it really in the KISS?!! Good or Bad...


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Avalon1k is offline Avalon1k Post #31  January 10,2010, 10:32pm
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Can you submit a proposal as to how you will go about accomplishing that?
The funny thing is as I was reading your post about insomnia I scrolled down and at the bottom of the page was an ad for a sleeping aid.

Most guys will never understand that women can't just shut their brains down at night like they can....
 
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I personally do believe in the power of the kiss (and one's kissing skills). To me, it says a lot about what kind of person they are and that, to me, then becomes a huge turn on for me or turn off.

I usually say that the "only two places/ways" where no person can hide their true personality is 1) in the bedroom, and 2) behind the wheel. But I think I'll amend that to "only three places/ways".... and add 3) kissing skills/technique.

(Although I guess kissing is sort of similar to bedroom right? So maybe it's just 2? I"ve gone and confused myself again lol).

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I don't believe it's in the kiss. I've been with someone who was a lousy kisser, couldn't dance for the life of him, simply couldn't hear the beat in music but in bed it was dynamite and fireworks.
 
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Wonderwoman402 wrote :
I've been with a fantastic kisser who was fantastic in bed (and I would classify this one as the "power of their kiss comes through like electric currents because there is real chemistry there.")
I've been with a 'meh' kisser who was great in bed.
I've been with a great kisser who was boring in bed.

While I'd like to think there's a correlation between great kissing and great between the sheets, I don't think it's a reliable indicator.

Except for if there's that electric current thing.... I absolutely felt that once and would do anything for a relationship like that again! That's the whole package, probably a once-in-a-lifetime thing. Darn it.
I think you're on to something... maybe it is in the kiss, when there are electric currents involved? I just can't imagine the sparks and movement of these kisses not equating to something more than spectacular. I won't get to find out for a while, so I think I have something "once in a lifetime" to look forward to.

These are such encouraging words!!!

So far, what's happened in the bedroom for me, totally equated to the kissing skills. Most times, meh, and meh... Decent kissers and decent in the bed. But, I have never had the "electric current" kiss before and methinks there's something there. I love hearing about your experience!!
 
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Avalon1k wrote :
The funny thing is as I was reading your post about insomnia I scrolled down and at the bottom of the page was an ad for a sleeping aid.

Most guys will never understand that women can't just shut their brains down at night like they can....
It's not really a male/female thing. I've known plenty of guys who have the same problem, though for me it's less with shutting my brain down from thinking and more to do with staying asleep because my brain doesn't stay in delta waves. If anything, I'd say I know more guys who can't shut off their brains than women.
 
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trixie1868 is offline trixie1868 Post #36  January 11,2010, 1:39pm

what the bejeezus is going on round here?!

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That's funny!

I would agree this correlation, for two hypothesis:

- A "good Kisser" is turned on by his partner, and desires her.

- He is paying attention to her reactions, and implements adaptation to her subtlely, in real time.

Neither of these speak to skills at sex, but the same hypothesis may reasonable by assumed to apply there as well.
I completely agree.

I like kissing. Kissing is great.
 
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peg099 wrote :
It's not really a male/female thing. I've known plenty of guys who have the same problem, though for me it's less with shutting my brain down from thinking and more to do with staying asleep because my brain doesn't stay in delta waves. If anything, I'd say I know more guys who can't shut off their brains than women.
Interesting, my experience has been just the opposite. Oh well....sorry to the others for derailing.....
 
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Mokkesofie wrote :
I don't believe it's in the kiss. I've been with someone who was a lousy kisser, couldn't dance for the life of him, simply couldn't hear the beat in music but in bed it was dynamite and fireworks.
*snicker* That was funny because my husband was like that. I had to teach him to kiss properly and he had no rhythmn in his feet but he had the right tempo in bed. Never got tired of that guy.
 
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richey wrote :
I personally do believe in the power of the kiss (and one's kissing skills). To me, it says a lot about what kind of person they are and that, to me, then becomes a huge turn on for me or turn off.

I usually say that the "only two places/ways" where no person can hide their true personality is 1) in the bedroom, and 2) behind the wheel. But I think I'll amend that to "only three places/ways".... and add 3) kissing skills/technique.

(Although I guess kissing is sort of similar to bedroom right? So maybe it's just 2? I"ve gone and confused myself again lol).

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Wonderwoman402 wrote :
I've been with a fantastic kisser who was fantastic in bed (and I would classify this one as the "power of their kiss comes through like electric currents because there is real chemistry there.")
I've been with a 'meh' kisser who was great in bed.
I've been with a great kisser who was boring in bed.

While I'd like to think there's a correlation between great kissing and great between the sheets, I don't think it's a reliable indicator.

Except for if there's that electric current thing.... I absolutely felt that once and would do anything for a relationship like that again! That's the whole package, probably a once-in-a-lifetime thing. Darn it.
Maybe you need to bring electric cords to bed
 
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