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GEF2 is offline GEF2 Post #1  January 9,2010, 7:48pm
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Was contacted by a guy on another site and wrote back and forth for a few emails. He seemed nice and friendly. We exchanged phone numbers and I said to feel free to call me I look forward to talking to him. He called me that night and left me a voicemail- which was Friday night. I was not home and missed that call. I returned his call the next day-Saturday and left him a message. 10 minutes later he texted me saying that he was no longer interested in me bc i not responding to him quick enough and am not receptive enough to me. He also sent me an email saying that I have a wall up and because I have been hurt in the past I am not making myself abailable to him and good luck to me bc I'm gonna need itv I don't know where he got all that-I never ever mentioned anything like that. I mean-he first contacts me on a weekend and I actually call him back the very next day and get this nasty message. What a psycho!! What happened to all the normal guys?
 
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GEF2 wrote :
What happened to all the normal guys?

Busy getting our e-mails ignored in the first place, so we found something better to do.
 
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RoxyRedhead is offline RoxyRedhead Post #3  January 9,2010, 7:55pm

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He's weird..you lucked out.

I'm sure the guys get replies like that from some women too-not just guys are weird after all.

Consider the source-you wouldn't want to date him anyhow now, would you? After being in a couple different online meet up services the past 2 years, I've learned not to take this kind of freaky behavior personally.

And, Ignore the frog here..he thinks he is important because he has his own Disney movie.
 
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richey is offline richey Post #4  January 9,2010, 10:28pm
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We're all still here. You just keep picking the psycho ones

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richey wrote :
We're all still here. You just keep picking the psycho ones

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actually, he contacted her, she said.
 
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There are a lot of guys online who think they're owed something, every now and again you'll run into one and get the brunt of his ire, you just have to shrug it off and walk on by.
 
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Wow! You're lucky he didn't get you into a first meeting. He sounds like a nut case!

I have to agree that you may have been getting the brunt of a few brush offs from other women.

I know I was ready to "gut" the next guy who lied to me the other night. After a date with the Mensa guy (10 year lie) and the psycho who didn't really want an answer to his question and then getting "matched" with a guy I had already met and his profile said a different age than he had told me, no man was safe. Sometimes we get frustrated and take it out on the next person in line.
 
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GEF2 wrote :
Was contacted by a guy on another site and wrote back and forth for a few emails. He seemed nice and friendly. We exchanged phone numbers and I said to feel free to call me I look forward to talking to him. He called me that night and left me a voicemail- which was Friday night. I was not home and missed that call. I returned his call the next day-Saturday and left him a message. 10 minutes later he texted me saying that he was no longer interested in me bc i not responding to him quick enough and am not receptive enough to me. He also sent me an email saying that I have a wall up and because I have been hurt in the past I am not making myself abailable to him and good luck to me bc I'm gonna need itv I don't know where he got all that-I never ever mentioned anything like that. I mean-he first contacts me on a weekend and I actually call him back the very next day and get this nasty message. What a psycho!! What happened to all the normal guys?
He most likely found someone else to date and did not feel he needed you. Pretty sour grapes though. You are better off without his kind of attitude. Imagine if he had not shown his true colors, and you fell for him, then he became a jerk? You are much better off having seen what he is like inside now rather than later.

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Sorry that happened to you - yes it is bewildering when it does, but you did dodge a bullet there, don't you think?

I had a guy who had an entire relationship with me via email, without ANY participation on my part, other than a polite reply to his initial expression of interest. Sounds similar, all I can say is don't hold the crazy against the next person you contact or who contacts you.

Sometimes people take their frustrations with the last person out on the next one..... no fun when you are in the next one's seat...

JMHO

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One psycho does not mean there are no normal men out there.

I would just breathe a sigh of relief and laugh it off. If a guy is needy, desperate and has low self-esteem, I would rather he self-destruct sooner than later. They always will implode so it is better if they do it before you have wasted any time with them.
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