What would you do...what should I do?


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I met a very nice man who showed up at a group that I attend once a week to hang out. It's been a couple of months now. Well we chatted a little via email and then he came over one night. In the end, we ended up getting a little physical (2nd base). Afterwards he said that he wasn't sure he could get in a relationship because of some past issues with a girl and because he was upset that he couldn't resist physically and didn't want to keep getting into that situation. He said he needed to work some things out first.

He left that night saying that he would think about it and then he would send me an email the next day. He never sent me an email. I saw him a couple of weeks ago for the first time afterward and it was awkward and it seemed like he didn't want to talk with me. Then during our last group time he was more relaxed and engaging. He has minimally communicated via email, but not about what we talked about.

At this point I don't know if I should just leave it as it is, or write him and ask if he has an answer. I feel in limbo not knowing. Yet, by him not writing back it's as if he has already made a choice. If I did email him about it, would it look like i was "clingy" or desperate? He told me that he liked me that night and I said that I liked him. I'm not looking for a yes on anything....I just would like to know where things stand now, especailly since we see each other about once a week.

Do I just let things go and let it be or do I write him and ask him? What would you do?
 
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