hope4thehopeless is offline hope4thehopeless Post #1  January 5,2010, 3:26pm
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So I met someone on eharmony he's a great guy. But I feel like I'm getting mixed messages. We've been seeing each other since August, we've already been on trips together. On our first trip however he said something to the effect that he wanted to wait 5 months before making us exclusive, to make sure we don't want to see other people. Then a few days ago he said in passing that he was "just too busy to date". So all this is just incredibly confusing to me. He calls/texts nearly everyday. We always have fun together. He tries to make time to see me (he's really busy and out of the state a lot). When we're together he always maintains eye contact, he's very physical. When I do dress up he always complements me. We spend the night at each others houses, I've met most of his friends and most of his family. So I just want some perspective, preferably from another male to tell me what this is all about.
 
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I am going to bump this one, especially since she wants advice from the guys.

But from the perspective of this gal, I would say to ask him what he means by his comment. He is the only one that knows for sure.
 
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