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faithful2atee is offline faithful2atee Post #11  January 2,2010, 4:41pm
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I was married to military and people use to ask all the time How do you do it? The answer was b/c i love him. You being military should have nothing to do with whether you are dateable. If someone wants to be with you they will not mind waiting when you are deployed. I feel undateable /c people cant see past my kids. If they cant handle you eing military, then they are not strong enough to have to e alone sometimes in a relationship.
 
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TheThinker wrote :
You devil you.

(szgorzelski, chawks just made a pass at you!)
Though I admit he is a good-looking guy and has a lot going for him, I'm kind of into the older guy thing, so men in their 50s is more my style.
 
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chawks64 wrote :
Though I admit he is a good-looking guy and has a lot going for him, I'm kind of into the older guy thing, so men in their 50s is more my style.
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I think you just haven't met the right woman.

Yes, some 20-something year old women will think you are too old, but not all. Same with the 30-somethings. You will find one that is perfect for you.

I don't really want to have more children. But, that isn't to say I won't change my mind for a wonderful man who doesn't have any and would make a great dad.

I have a hard time meeting guys around my age (36) who don't want more kids. Strange as that sounds.

And yes, sometimes I feel un datable.
 
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richey is online now richey Post #15  January 6,2010, 10:42pm
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Dating is tough for all of us! And we always think it's greener on the other side. As somebody else said, we ALL have things aout us that we feel limits our appeal to potential dates.

Where as you are 32 and think that's a knock against you, I just turned 41!. Where you say you can't have kids, I've actually had things not work because a woman is not willing to have kids (cuz they already have 2 or 3 or 4). Where you say being in the military is to our disadvantage, I"ve found myself thinking "if only I had a uniform..... I'd have more women interested in me...", etc.

So, we're all in this together really... and sometimes the grass is always greener on the other side.

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