onegoal is offline onegoal Post #1  December 31,2009, 9:32pm
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At my work "retail store" There is this girl who works in another dept who I think is really cute, nice ect. Anyways I asked another coworker who is friends with her, knows her better and she told me that she does have a boyfriend, and I told her that I wanted to ask her out, why I was asking. Anyways do you think she went and told her I was inquiring about her, and wanted to ask her out?

When I see this chick again at work should I mention it to her, and tell her that I wanted to ask her out and that? I mean she has a bf, but I want her to know that I like her.
 
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At my work "retail store" There is this girl who works in another dept who I think is really cute, nice ect. Anyways I asked another coworker who is friends with her, knows her better and she told me that she does have a boyfriend, and I told her that I wanted to ask her out, why I was asking. Anyways do you think she went and told her I was inquiring about her, and wanted to ask her out?

When I see this chick again at work should I mention it to her, and tell her that I wanted to ask her out and that? I mean she has a bf, but I want her to know that I like her.
Go for it! You only have one chance at this life thing so ask her out. You do not know what her status is with the bf. It may be that she is waiting for a better offer. Follow your gut!
 
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Work is tricky even if its another department. She may lose a little respect for you if she finds out that you wanted to make your intentions known anyways even though you knew she had a bf.

There's over 3 billion women in the world. the cute girl at work with the boyfriend is probably not the best one to persue.
 
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Ah, just go for it. What's the worst she can say, no? Then you can move on and keep asking until you find someone who is single and interested.

And the best that could happen is that she could be interested, and you could take her out on a date. So go for it.
 
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she has a boyfriend.

hands off.
 
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meanminicooper wrote :
Work is tricky even if its another department. She may lose a little respect for you if she finds out that you wanted to make your intentions known anyways even though you knew she had a bf.

There's over 3 billion women in the world. the cute girl at work with the boyfriend is probably not the best one to persue.
This.

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she has a boyfriend.

hands off.
And, most of all, this.
 
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Yeah, you know she has a boyfriend. Leave it be, another cute girl will come along.
 
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meanminicooper wrote :
Work is tricky even if its another department. She may lose a little respect for you if she finds out that you wanted to make your intentions known anyways even though you knew she had a bf.

There's over 3 billion women in the world. the cute girl at work with the boyfriend is probably not the best one to persue.
scarlet13 wrote :
she has a boyfriend.

hands off.
littlebluemonkeymind wrote :
This.



And, most of all, this.
stevex wrote :
Yeah, you know she has a boyfriend. Leave it be, another cute girl will come along.
Exactly as these folks have said.
 
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Ah, just go for it. What's the worst she can say, no? Then you can move on and keep asking until you find someone who is single and interested.

And the best that could happen is that she could be interested, and you could take her out on a date. So go for it.
So let's see if I understand your position correctly. You have a fiancee but if someone was to be attracted to her then you would be fine with them asking her out?

I DON'T THINK SO ! ! !
 
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scarlet13 wrote :
she has a boyfriend.

hands off.
Yep.
BTW-
she's not a chick, she's either a girl, or a woman.
 
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