LilC is offline LilC Post #1  December 30,2009, 5:00pm
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Okay so I'm a 26 year old girl who has not been in a relationship before and never been on more then 2 dates with another. I know I want to find someone to be with but I am also so use to living my life without reporting to anyone and not having to call or be somewhere at a certain time. So when I meet a person online and they want me to call them or they call me and want to talk at night or whatever it's a little awkward. Anyone have any advice on how I may overcome this. I want to find someone and this feeling is clearly killing any chance I have at happiness.
 
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Uh, if you want to be in a relationship, do you not want to be with a MOTUS? (Member Of The Opposite Sex.)

I suggest pushing for an in-person meeting as soon as is practical. This should show you if you like this person, and want to be with them.
 
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Thank you D Lion!!! I hope pushing for a in person meeting will help!!! Also I am interested in the opposite sex. I am not a lesbian or anything....
 
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LilC wrote :
Thank you D Lion!!! I hope pushing for a in person meeting will help!!! Also I am interested in the opposite sex. I am not a lesbian or anything....
not that there's anything wrong with that....
 
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TheThinker wrote :
not that there's anything wrong with that....
Nope I don't believe there is
 
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Nope I don't believe there is
never been a Seinfeld fan, eh?
 
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TheThinker wrote :
never been a Seinfeld fan, eh?
huh??? Not sure I catch your drift... I actually use to watch that show all the time...
 
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Yo ... TheThinker ... ahem ... quit trying to steer this Lady away from selecting a MOTUS!
 
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Yo ... TheThinker ... ahem ... quit trying to steer this Lady away from selecting a MOTUS!
You're on deck...
she's young enough to be my daughter.
 
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D_Lion wrote :
Yo ... TheThinker ... ahem ... quit trying to steer this Lady away from selecting a MOTUS!
But you are a frog not a MOTUS

And I think that you missed the whole question of the OP
 
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