terybery is offline terybery Post #1  December 28,2009, 9:32pm
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I have joined eharmony a second time. The first time, I did not have any matches that I was really wanting to go further with than just the initial questions phase. I'm trying again, but the last time, I honestly did not feel one ounce of attraction on any kind plain. I truly believe there has to be the whole package. I can't be the only one out there. I am ready for a success story!!!!
 
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richey is online now richey Post #2  December 30,2009, 1:23am
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You say you want the "whole package", but didnt' make an attempt (from the sounds of it) to meet people in person. Question: how are you going to asses the "whole package" when you judge them before you meet them?

I've met a great lady (now my gf) on EH and quite frankly it almost never happened because my initial reaction to her profile ~ I wasn't sure there'd be antyhing either. turns out I've never met anybody more perfect for me in my life.

So beware of being too judgemental too early or being too close-minded. In what I've learned, you really don't know somebody or what's there til you spend time with them in person.

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terybery wrote :
I'm trying again, but the last time, I honestly did not feel one ounce of attraction on any kind plain.
What does this mean? Any kind plain?

I think richey has it right. If you never meet a match in person then of course you'll never get to see if there is any connection IRL.
 
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