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Can_I_just_be_Jo is offline Can_I_just_be_Jo Post #21  December 28,2009, 4:22pm

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I bagged a nice guy, would you like me to contact him to see how I did this. I have been attributing it to luck. He is home tonight which he told me tonight doesn't feel like home anymore.

Still I am a nice girl and I have a nice guy. Does this ruin the theory or are we outliers?
 
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j0hn8andy is offline j0hn8andy Post #22  December 28,2009, 4:27pm
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trixie1868 wrote :
Please detail just how badly you are prepared to behave to catch a nice guy. Remember 'nice' girls aren't in the running on this one.
Am I allowed to post here? I've been accused of being nice. I can get ugly, at times, when I have to. But I prefer not to show my weapons in public.

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Perhaps you need to look at this in reverse....what type of women do us nice guys attract ?
My approach would be similar to this. I would select my target; learn what I could of him. I would focus on what he wants and needs, though, rather than the type he attracts. Sometimes, what one attracts.....is not necessarily what one wants for the long haul.

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trixie1868 wrote :
HOW ARE YOU LADIES GONNA BAG HIM?
With Tea?
 
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Mekel is offline Mekel Post #24  December 28,2009, 4:32pm
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trixie1868 wrote :
So, if you have to attract a nice girl by being 'nasty' it may be safe to assume you can only get a nice guy by being an equally wild woman.
I have to disagree with your assertion.

On the other hand, I think the most wild thing a woman can do is be sincere, interested, and not play games or need to be chased to be caught. Considering that seems the most original and unusual approach for women.
 
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littlebluemonkeymind is offline littlebluemonkeymind Post #25  December 28,2009, 4:38pm
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Mainah64 wrote :
With Tea?
I think you wandered out of your group, there, big guy.
Last edited by littlebluemonkeymind; December 28,2009 at 4:39pm. Reason: No, come closer. I'm not doing anything with this duct tape heheheh....
 
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :
I think you wandered out of your group, there, big guy.
You've been peaking..... naughty lil Monkey.
 
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Mainah64 wrote :
You've been peaking..... naughty lil Monkey.
You'd have been disappointed if I hadn't.

Now come over here and step into this burlap bag for me.
 
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I tend to attract "nice guys" and am by no means a bad girl.

I really think it's because I make friends with men easily and nice guys are the ones that are generally open to finding real friends.

I don't think "bad girls" attract nice guys at all. I think they attract men that, for whatever reason, are drawn to being stepped on. Not at all the same thing as nice.
 
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :
You'd have been disappointed if I hadn't.

Now come over here and step into this burlap bag for me.
Gonna hop in it with me and some tea?
 
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Mainah64 wrote :
Gonna hop in it with me and some tea?
Duct tape first, tea later - preferably with honey and cream and some of those thin mint cookies.
 
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