Top 5 or 10 (for that matter) Female Turn Ons


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There was a thread earlier tittled: Top 5 Female Turn Offs. Now, would the ladies be so kind as to give a list of their top 5 (or 10) female turn-ons? Thanks!
 
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1) Kindness to everyone (i.e. not being rude to waitstaff, random people, etc.)

2) Engaging me in an intelligent/intellectual conversation (I like when a guy wants me to think for myself!)

3) Sense of humor

4) Being able to take care of himself--I love when a guy works on his own car or house

5) Happiness/Optimism--A guy who's smiling is going to get my attention faster than a guy who looks perpetually pissed off

6) Nerdiness. Interest in physics or Star Wars? Yes, please!
 
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Here are five of mine (probably the top 5), in no particular order:

1) intellect (and the exercise of it...)
2) awareness of others (attentiveness)
3) physical fitness (not necessarily an athlete, but just generally in reasonable shape: namely, he's capable of spending the morning wheelbarrowing fieldstones if I need to lay a new garden path )
4) good communication (both giving and receiving)
5) responsibility (ability to handle and willingness to take on/share)
 
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Come on Ladies, make 'em good. None of this "he loves my kitteh" ...not that I am against cats....(oh my!)
 
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1. not stupid
2. good grooming/sense of style when dressing (but not overly trendy)
3. flirty, quick witted
4. in somewhat decent shape- can carry some extra poundage but not sloppy.
5. tattoos, piercings
6. has interests other than sports
7. confident but not cocky
8. assertive but not aggressive
9. likes cats
10. not sexually repressed
11. does not carry baggage (the emotional kind)
12. good communication/social skills
 
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My top 5...

1) Intelligence... this can make up for good looks any day! I love an intelligent man. Someone who can talk to you, someone who has knowledge of what's going on in the world, who can have a conversation, good debate... someone who knows multiple language is also a huge turn-on.

2) Communications - a guy who can communicate, open up to you, who is responsive and is good at keeping in touch. Someone who is social to the point where they know how to conduct themselves and can really hold an interesting conversation with people.

3) Committed - someone who is committed and loyal. someone who takes pride in his relationship and likes to be taken care of (yes, I am one of those women... have no problem taking care of my man as long as he is taking care of me).

4) Adventurous - someone who wants to get out an explore. whether that's a new food, a new activity, or new place. Love a guy who can and actually enjoys taking the lead and just going for it.

5) Stable - I am in a good place in life personally, and I am looking for a guy who is also in a good emotionally and financially stable situation.
 
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1. Smart (but not obnoxious about it)
2. Good character (honest, can be trusted, loyal)
3. Physically fit (not an Olympian but takes care of himself
4. Great smile and likes to use it
5. Eyes (like a twinkle in them)
6. Affectionate and communicative
7 Kindness and respect for others
8 Great sense of humor
9 Responsible
10. Thinks I am wonderful
 
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Okay, here you go.....sense of humor is first, always. Then, the "it" factor/a spark/chemistry. 3-5 would be a combination of intellect, kindness and reliability. How's that?
 
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These are what get me to notice him in the first place:
Intelligence (without the arrogant attitude)
Sense of humor (trite but it's true)
A warm smile
Okay, I admit I like facial hair...

Once we're in a relationship, these will make me want to cancel our dinner reservations and stay home with him:
A backrub with lotion (my favorite)
Watching him help someone in need
Doing some chore as a surprise because he knows I hate it
Telling me I'm beautiful and meaning it (we can see it in your eyes...)
Having an engrossing conversation (that one's probably just me)
Watching him be loving and caring around his family

Yeah, I know. I'm odd.
 
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1 Kind to me, children and animals.
2 Sense of humor, does not take himself or the situation too seriously.
3 Passionate about his life, me, and all the good things.
4. Emotionally stable.
5. Intelligent without being overbearing.
6. Loves me.
 
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