Little_1 is offline Little_1 Post #1  December 27,2009, 9:18am
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Last edited by Little_1; December 27,2009 at 3:15pm. Reason: I think I found my answer another way
 
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DennisWisconsin is offline DennisWisconsin Post #2  December 27,2009, 10:51am
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Someone having to leave town to get away from things is a huge red flag in my opinion. Especially if they are unwilling to explain what it's about. I wouldn't date anyone with a secret like this. For all you know he was arrested for something or had some old baggage pop up.
 
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I guess the OP deleted the original question. But based on DW's post I would have to agree with what he said.
 
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The only advice that I have to offer is to type more than smiley face icons. Your thread title had potential, but the body of your paragraph was lacking...well... a paragraph.
 
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In general... anybody who can't explain things to you, avoids discussing thigns with you, is prone to running away instead of dealing with it, or keeps things from you.... DEFINITELY red flags and a person you want to walk away from asap.

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Little_1, I know it's frustrating not getting the answers you want to hear on a subject you are so close to. I never got to read this post and would have loved to put my 2 cents in (if I thought it would have been worth your time to read).

Please repost. You are always going to find people with different opinions than yours. And sometimes, on this board, very strong opinions. This group can be a strong backing if you are truly having an issue you need a different perspective on.

I hope to see it soon!
 
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AndieIsMe wrote :
I hope to see it soon!
I'm thinking... probably not.
 
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