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There's nothing like it. A kiss full of passion and chemistry and promise. But in the end is a kiss just a kiss? Does it have to mean anything? Find out what one study revealed.
- October 8th, 2007, 07:59 pm
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Kissing well and with good timing is a signature mark of sexual awareness, skill, and an expression of arousal that signals to a woman if a man is going to be right for her or not. It is the beginning or the end of a budding relationship. Men need to know how important this is and women need to know how to respond through love's differing stages in the interminable tango of love.
- October 11th, 2007, 03:53 pm
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wow natasha:

that is incredibly said.

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- October 12th, 2007, 12:37 am
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Kissing does show us if we are meant to be together as lovers or just sex partners, If you don't feel that closeness to your partner, that feeling of love and being content, the need to show how much you care for the other and wanting to please him and the need for him to please you then the kiss could only mean you are in it for the sex. What other way could I explain it? And for me the tongue is out, the kiss that is shared between the upper and then lower lips kissing each seperatly is like caressing and expressing love in a more slow and intimate motion.
- October 12th, 2007, 03:27 am
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Kissing is an artform and some people instinctually know how to create the ultimate expression of intent. A soft peck, a full throttle, it all is dependent upon the moment and receiver. If you are the initiator, do you kiss differently than if you are the one receiving the delicious gift? It can be done well by anyone -- even if there isn't outward sign of sensitivity and kismet.

The best I ever heard said about a guy is "He kisses like a woman." Guess who has the upper hand in this arena, ladies...
- October 12th, 2007, 06:11 pm
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Kissing is the ultimate breaking into of the other persons private space. You are allowing someone in, and the are allowing you in. It's a sign of trust.

Passionate kissing on the other hand is a way for two persons to share the depth of their emotions as well as showing intent to the other person. How two people kiss each other will go a long way to proving compatability in intamacy.

Call it a proving ground or dry run at the more private part...
- October 12th, 2007, 07:57 pm
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A small wet peck on the back of the neck; a breathy kiss on the ear lobe; a short sensuous kiss on the lips: all have a special meaning . . .that you care for that person. The lips are mandatory don't forget them and jump to the other.
- October 12th, 2007, 09:34 pm
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I can honestly agree w/Natasha about whether a woman knows if a man is right for her or not. I was dating this guy and i loved everything about him it was like we were totally compatiable....then he kissed me. He came on entirely too strong, for one, for two he had no technique whatsoever, it was not about what i would enjoy at all. It was about him getting his tongue down my throat. UGH UGH UGH. Needless to say we didn't date too much after that i did try to give another chance(maybe he was nervous, out of practice) NOT. Now the MAN i am dating now when HE kissed me for the 1st time, it was one of those that made me want to curl up my toes and sigh, I was like i have been waiting my whole life to be kissed in just this way. he was subtle to test my reaction and then he likes to say i just melted in his arms. Just remember guys a kiss can make or break you!! By the way that man is now my fiance, i want to kissed that way for the rest of my life!!
- October 12th, 2007, 10:16 pm
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OK ladies out there,do you have any advice for a guy with little experience and confidence?Can anyone tell me how a lady likes to be kissed?Please understand I'm not joking around here.I have a certain background and history that has led to me only kissing one woman in my lifetime.Now I find myself dating again and worry about making a mistake that could hurt a potentially wonderful relationship?The only thing I do know is that I've been told I wait too long,I consider kissing an intimate expression of emotion and don't do it casually.Does it send the wrong message if I don't try to kiss her early on?
- October 14th, 2007, 08:44 pm
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Wow... you people are incredibly shallow.
- October 14th, 2007, 10:15 pm
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