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Well I am and new user and well, I am sort of confused. I am a successful young guy, who I dunno seems to have the worst luck when it comes to dating. I guess I will use the details of what just happened in the last week or so.

Someone please explain to me how someone can ask me out on 2 dates, and then not communicate at all, and then blow me off on both of them. Maybe its something I am missing because Ive only ever really dated a couple times in college. Someone explain to me whats going on? I will go into more detail, but for right now Ill see what opinions I get.

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You met a Lout who wants to use you to make herself feel better.

Next time, pick the woman you like, and ask her out. (In a definitive manner, please.)
 
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why dont you just give the details now to avoid confusion. i'm not clear on what the real purpose is in withholding them
 
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Someone please explain to me how someone can ask me out on 2 dates, and then not communicate at all, and then blow me off on both of them.

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Very simple, we were hooked up by a mutual friend. Well she came over the other night to talk and what not, and all was well. She asked me out, then for the rest of the week she basically avoided me and then blew me off. kinda sucked.... short and simple
 
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i didnt have a problem with your post dlion till i saw the word "lout" and then the word "used"! so not fair!
 
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Well she came over the other night to talk and what not, and all was well. She asked me out, then for the rest of the week she basically avoided me and then blew me off.

"Have you no decency, sir? At long last, have you no decency?!"

Walk away from this manipulative person just as fast as you can.
 
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Very simple, we were hooked up by a mutual friend. Well she came over the other night to talk and what not, and all was well. She asked me out, then for the rest of the week she basically avoided me and then blew me off. kinda sucked.... short and simple

yeah i will agree that she should have never asked you out if she didnt really want to go out with you.

maybe she asked you out because she felt obligated to because it was her friend and then thought better of it when she left. she shoulda told you at the very least.
 
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i didnt have a problem with your post dlion till i saw the word "lout" and then the word "used"! so not fair!

If you find the OP's woman's behavior acceptable, I'd like to know why?
 
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If you find the OP's woman's behavior acceptable, I'd like to know why?
someone gave you 5 stars to make it a completely undeserved 3.
 
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