Andrea8823 is offline Andrea8823 Post #1  December 18,2009, 7:30am
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I've been dating a guy from eharmony for approximately 6 or 7 weeks. We're hanging out for the 7th time tomorrow. I'm really into him, and he seems pretty into me. He has told me that he's surprised he likes me as much as he does and that he really likes spending time with me.

All we've done is kiss and hold hands....and he has put his arm around me. I want to make sure I take things slowly.

I know this depends on the person/circumstances, but typically how long do you guys wait before you make a relationship official?
 
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Usually I let the guy bring it up, which can be from within a week to six months in my experience! But if you want to be official, you could always hint or joke about it to bring up the subject. I have a sarcastic sense of humor, so I joked to a guy that I met on Eharmony that I might like him enough to turn my matching off (and I added that my final decision hung on how much he impressed me over the next date). He said he wanted to be official as we parted after said date. You can make it playful to keep the mood light on a date.
 
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Be open, are you seeing anyone else? Ask him if he is? If neither of you are seeing anyone else, have no plans to see anyone else, and content in being together than I think it is pretty official.
 
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stevex wrote :
Be open, are you seeing anyone else? Ask him if he is? If neither of you are seeing anyone else, have no plans to see anyone else, and content in being together than I think it is pretty official.
I'm not seeing anyone else; I turned my matching off after the second time we hungout because I saw potential w/ us. I'm just afraid to ask him because I don't want to come off as pushy
 
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Andrea8823 wrote :
I'm not seeing anyone else; I turned my matching off after the second time we hungout because I saw potential w/ us. I'm just afraid to ask him because I don't want to come off as pushy
If he thinks you are being pushy after 7 weeks of dating and wanting to enter into the relationship stage at that point than do you really want to continue seeing the guy?
 
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